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I broke NC, as she presented she wants a divorce despite being in a hospital bed and being hooked up on pain meds and the operation was not successful.
I am in shock and don’t know what to say.
Her rebound is not even close to me… He is fat in way out of proportion,, bald…..wears glasses.
I am cross fit participant and keep pretty fit with many activities.
Losing more weight.
DO I continue the NC?
Im on day 3 and its been very hard because my wife doesn’t want me at the hospital with her..so I hang outside and say a prayer for her and leave.
I see her new boyfriend…come to visit….Guys a fat lard and bald guy….so Im guessing it was an upgrade.
I’m hanging on….just sad and broken.
our intention was to settle and live in the states but due to her illness and that her degree wasn’t good in the states she go distraught about it.
A solution was school for one year for her degree costing 42k usd. It was alot but I was willing to do it for her.
It was alot of other stuff but mainly is thst she didn’t like the back and forth we were doing from the states and Hungary.
Im half Hungarian so I can live and work here with no issues at all.I have hope and faith and won’t give up but really hurting but remaining positive and keeping busy.
thank you for anyone reading and responding , I appreciate it very much.
we are separated and she wants a divorce but the divorce makes her lose her green card as I sponsored her for the card.
We applied for an overseas extension for her visa so she can be out of the country without losing her green card.
She is having 2nd thoughts about divorcing me.
I met the boyfriend and I was nice like Kevin says to be.
I am doing the 5 steps, I changed a lot in my life like a lot of negative influences, going to the gym alot. Eating healthy and trying to work and live in Hungary.
She is recovering in hospital and will be there for a while.
Operation just happened this morning and she wrote a long message to move on and leave me alone.
So I will do the NC for now for 30 days but my guess is she will contact me for the green card news and the extension.
I want to get back together with her and we had a lot of great times and as always some sad times, but I will strive to be a better person after this 30 days.
thank god for friends and family as I’m up and down hurting and full of hope.
Should I tell her no more contact or just say nothing.
well I visited the ex and she said she didn’t like it and she found someone else.
Her surgery was today and I visited by a surprise.I guess the NC should start now I suppose?
The letter stated that her health and depression effects her and she wants to leave me and she wants me to find someone else.
She posted a lot of negative stuff about me and she was right.
I was greedy and egoistic and doing things that didn’t maker her happy.
I will be there for her.
She really doesn’t want anyone in the hospital but I will be there despite her wishes.
