Paul B

Well, I responded to the poster of the video and not to the guy himself. I mentioned to her that she was engaged up until 1 or 2 weeks ago and they had been cheating for over a month. I said things like not wanting her hurt and all the rest of everything you aren’t supposed to say. There was nothing threatening, just needed it out there. I don’t know if he knew she was engaged.
During our early morning yell fest, she repeated what he said and it was “some guy named Paul from (hometown) messaged my cousin”. Makes me think he never k Ew about me.
I’ve since gotten my son into counseling, and now that this devastation is subsiding I can focus on work, improving myself and him again. I ask myself every day if I’d take her back and the answer is always yes.
The thing is, I don’t know if she hurts like me or at all. I don’t think she’ll come back, so I’m preparing myself for that as best I can.
We had it good for so long. The fighting was minimal and petty and money was never an issue. I just don’t understand how I was replaced so quickly after all that time.