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It has been a month since the email…do you think I can try to contact him again?
Can I talk to his friends?
I think he is really a guy with bad maner….I replied his email in a very polite way…I can only let it gone..
Some follow up…
I sent him the email about the plans for weekend..saying meeting like friends
His reply was really awful…
He said we broken up…he hopes me to move on and he had move on..he said the time he met me in that bar was incredibly ackward…he said if he met me again he would just left without seeing anything…He also alarms me not visit him, otherwise he will report to the police…
I didn’t say anything related to relationship or back together at all…
It seems like it is time to finish…
And suggestions?
I feel like we are in almost the same situation. My ex suggested to meet the coming weekend and asked me to shoot him an email…however, when days coming, he didn’t have any action at all…I don’t know how to deal with that either….very annoying…
I was really sorry about it. That was probably the mistake I made, although I didn’t really want to be like that…
I have apologized…very sincere apologized and I am working very hard to move back…
I just want to have a chance to let me fix it….
I will probably send it tonight…just tell him that I would like to meet and talk to him…
He was mad at me in August that I didn’t see him for more than 10 days….Actually I was crazy and had hard time in the following things even the weekend…
1) my job switched new office in the other city…that is why I had to move in somewhere 2 hours away…The new start is always really busy…I faced working pressure.
2) I was working to change job and move back…that is why I have to use my spare time to do a lot of things which are essentially required for moving back…
3) I just moved to a new house, I didn’t set up things yet…a lot of unpacked box…not established furniture, even very messy…I felt shame to invite anyone come at this time…That is why I didn’t ask him to come to the new house in August…but he might think of something else, like I am dating with some one else or I don’t care him enough…@patricia12
How to draft the email? Just say, hey…how are you doing? Do you want to meet up for a hiking on Saturday?Or a dinner on Saturday? Something like that?When I saw him last time. We had quite a lot of communication on eyes…i can feel that he still care about me. Also, we talked with each other for around half an hour.
He offered to drive to me before. I refused this idea. Actually..I just moved to the other city for 2 months and my new house was not well set-up…messy and a lot of unpacked stuff…I felt shame to ask him to come..so I suggest wait a bit and give me some time in August to figure out my work and life….He actually got mad at me about this thinking I might hide something and don’t refuse to meet him ….He doesn’t want to listen to my explain..even not forgive me…
These really small things burn out the relationship….
First, he blocked my phone including call and text message. However, he did not block my email at all. When I was meeting him in person last week, he told me to shoot him two emails, one is for telling him that I drave safely home; while the other is for meeting in next weekend if I want to.
He clearly told me that he can get my email.
However, when I send him the email telling him that I was driving fine and safe, he did not reply that at all. So, I don’t know how to follow up the email about meeting in the weekend.
I was never a needy person. I just had a hard time in August and I might not give him enough attention and appreciation when I was in a difficult situation.
