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Cat womann
Hey it’s been a while 🙂
And yes, she did bring out the best in me. This girl got with me when I had nothing. No job, college dropout, and no motive for anything. She believed in me and now i have a good job in a security company and i’ll be finished with my Bachelors degree in the summer. I couldn’t of done it without her support and my family.She didn’t start acting this way until the break up, she’s a sweet girl (although it doesn’t seem like that right now because she is hurt).
I was hot and cold with her, she was always warm. I focused so much on the relationship that I completely neglected my own needs. This is why her love was warm and mines was overwhelming. It’s true what they say you do need to love yourself before you can love someone else. I’m now learning that the hard way.
I also found this article
http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-to-stop-your-exs-no-contact-rule/
Btw guys how long should I go NC?
Based on her twitter it seems like she is still pissed off at me. Last time we spoke was last week and I sent her a text telling her I acknowledge the break up (which she didn’t respond to). So I’ve been NC for about 3 days now. I feel like I should give her a few months but I don’t want her to get over me.Idk, personally if I found out my ex had sex with someone else I might just stop trying. Sex can create attachment with another individual especially for women. However, that’s just me though.
If you guys are close to getting back together then don’t let it stop you bro.I think it’s a little messed up that she told you she had sex with another guy twice knowing that you’re still interested in her…
I’m happy for you Cat Womann! I was thinking of getting new clothes and participating in crossfit. I’m sure I’ll have the ladies all over me lol jk. And for your ex I think the 2 weeks is fine if you’ve guys have had good communication when you talk.
And yes I did check her page. It makes me sad because I feel like I put her through so much and she might never forgive me. Idk how long she’s going to be like this but something tells me I should go NC for a few months, maybe 2.
Cat Womann look at the latest tread I posted up a few minutes ago and tell me what you think?
No no, Confused Girl,
I know you really want him back but don’t fall for it, Let him chase you. I know it’s tempting but you can’t accept this bait.Yea she told me she wants nothing to do with me, and that it’s going to take her time to heal from all this, she’s been angry and disappointed at me. She doesn’t want to meet up with me, she thinks her feelings for me will come rushing back. I would like to contact her sometime in the future but I’m afraid she’s trying to string me along in case it doesn’t work with someone else. Based on her twitter her feelings have been conflicting with one another and as if she’s trying to forget me (based on some of the stuff she writes). I’m trying to move on but my head is a mess.
Thank you for your response. Idk I’m a little confused, because of Valentines Day she was pissed off and just thinking about our failed relationship. We broke up on the 6th so that was already more than a week so for that reason I doubt she already had someone to fall back on. But then again I’m not sure, she was cold, distant, and mean when I last spoke to her, and she said for the 2 weeks we didn’t talk she was just angry at me.
Yes it makes sense. Idk do think it’s time to ask him out or is too soon? Second though, yeah don’t be easy let him bite.
Man, idk what that is but I hear my brother say it sometimes lol. Tell us how he responded after you said that lol
No Cat Womann she doesn’t know who visits her page, and I have her blocked. On twitter you can still view someone’s tweets even though they’re blocked, but she can’t view mine unless she goes on another name.
And congrats on the weight lost, I lost weight too but it was from being depressed over this chick. Maybe one day we will focus on someone new and realize how much time we wasted on these people. However, focusing on someone else doesn’t seem enticing for me at the moment lol. Sadly she’s the only diamond in my eye :\
