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Thank you so much, would I mind asking how long would it be until she contacts me? Like I said she looks happy and maybe moved on but I still have some feelings there. Everybody keeps saying she’s not coming back and I might believe that.
I keep reminding myself it is a rebound but then I see them literally alone everytime after school. I play volleyball so I stay after school for it. And everytime I go to my game, I see them talking by their locker smiling and just seem normal and kissing. We have class together and she literally talks to guys right next to me and seems like she doesn’t care about me. I’m just really frustrated of that fact that she thinks it’s right to immiedietaly have a guy after a breakup while I’m not even looking for a girl. Yes I have friends that are girls but not that serious. It isn’t fair how she can just jump one guy to another like nothing. She posts so many happy things on her tumblr(in which she uses it as if her life depended on it).
Everybody says how happy she is. All the guys are giving her the attention and I’m just there.
I’m sorry if I sound too needy but I just really need some help because I’ve been through this exact situation last year in which we broke up, she went for another guy & then came back to me a month and a half later. But this time it happened once more and it seems like she’s really happy with this one.
By the way, the guy she was talking to at first isn’t the guy she’s talking to now. So it’s a different guy and well it seems like she chooses him out of the rest.
We did fight the last couple of months with abusive words back and forth. But then rhe last fight we had was really bad. I got bad because she always had talked to guys behind my back without knowing and since she has depression, or had since she doesn’t show it anymore, she went to the hosptial because she had an anxiety attack. I kept talking to her brother to see how she was doing everyday and when she came back she left me with a harsh tone and say how I treated her like shit and how I sent her to the hosptial. But then a week later I found out she was talking to a guy and then I panicked, got so angry and fainted and was sent to the hosptial as well. Only this time, she didn’t check up on me on how I was and such. But now she’s talking to this guy and I feel like she’ll think in the back of her mind how bad I was and such when I never intended to do so. You have the advantage but I dont.
So today I saw them holding hands in the hall and it honestly brought me down knowing she’s happy with him and I’m still all alone. Any help? This is hard.
But to briefly explain things more deeply, we did have a lot of fighting and abusive words during the last 2 months of us going out before breaking up. This exact situation happened last year in which I finally got her back after a month and a half but now it seems like forever and this guy can be the one for her.
I would say both like when we’re together, we laugh and be so sweet to each other and sometimes it’s unhealthy
Thank you and this did make me feel better. But isn’t there a possibility that she might take him even serious ? Because the reason we broke up is because she claims I treated her like shit and was abusive. I’m pretty sure this guy will make her forget all about that and then she’ll fall for him and think of me as just a mistake.
She hates me. Even after a month she still thinks I wasn’t worth it and regret the relationship. She has so many things against as do I. But I would like to talk about it but I guess she’s falling for this new kid.
