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Thank you so much it helped me out but sadly, I continue seeing the same thing over and over again and today I found out that he’s a really really nice guy. That girls honestly think he’s a sweetheart and I noticed that my ex always looks down or serious and he gives her a kiss. Like he’s comforting her while she’s going through something. This isn’t helping at all because I keep thinking oh This guy is GONA make her think he’s the one and be a sweetheart to her.
We keep making eye contact in public, but then at the end of th day I always see her talking to this guy.
And what if she’s having sex with him, what if they’re actually ment for each other. It frustrates me so much knowing that she’s probably doing what we did a lot to that new guy.
I have a hard time knowing the fact that literally a week after she’s with one guy and now she’s talking to another guy ? I was very very very ill that I was send to the hosptial and she knew about it. Yet she never told me if I was ok. Nothing. Like where I’m I in this? Does she not know that what she’s doing is wrong? She’s with a lot of guys in school and I have to see it everyday.
Still the same. Everyday passes by and I haven’t heard a single word from her and she’s still being happy with this new guy. It’s been a month and a half of no contact.
So basically she will also forget about the whole me talking to her best friend situation? Remind you that she hated her bestfriend for doing that with me but now all of a sudden there friends since she told her what happen between us.
Especially in my situation there’s still a chance? After 2-3 months I can conclude she’s serious?
I also find out that she’s gossiping because while we dated I was talking to her ex best friend inappropriatly since I needed attention just that one night. Afterwards, my ex found out and we got into a huge fight and i cried and told her to forgive me which she did. 2 months past and we were still together and broke up with me. Now she’s holding that against me when she forgave me and I stopped doing that to her. also, there one a time in our relationship where we had a big big fight that it involved me putting hands on her throat wanting to kill her but I didn’t hit her. I apologized to her and she forgive me and I even went to church , since I’m catholic, to confess it. She’s also holding that against me and telling people I hit her when I didnt. So many things that are in my mind that’s making me think she’s never going to talk to me because of what I’ve done. She’s done many more things aswell but now I feel like she’ll get revenge on me by having this new guy and do everything we did to him, including sexual things which bothers me the most when I think of it.
I’m losing hope because she looks so happy and it just like bothers me. I don’t think she’s ever coming back honestly and everyone even says it.
During the 2 months of nc, has there been any sign of her either texting you or trying to catch your attention some how? I’m in a very similar situation only mine lasted about 3 weeks after she got a new boyfriend.
I understand. But the thing is idk her friends at all. So it was basically a random friend who said it while she was with her. Is she playing some games or something or trying to act immature? If it continues shouldn’t I do something about it?
Thank you so much, that list really did help.
So today I was talking to my friend next to me and then my ex came up to him saying ” don’t talk to fuck boys” and walked away. Isn’t that a little immature? Then the following hour I see her and her guy holding hands. Around 1:00 I had another class in which I stood outside waiting for a friend and my ex and her friends passed by. I didn’t even notice them passing by and then her friend yelled out looking at me smiling ” you are ugly as hell!”
Can someone explain this to me?
