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@Patricia
Thanks! 🙂 it was really good talking to her. We even talked on the phone a little bit too. Im sure she knows I miss her like crazy. But unfortunately I don’t think she misses me like crazy. I think she just wanted to check on me and see how I was doing. She told me I still don’t have any intimate feelings for you. And said I don’t know what the future will bring and I am open to it but right now I don’t feel that way. So the only thing I can do is to just keep her in my life and see how things develop. I won’t be calling or texting her everyday. I will wait for her to do it. And sometimes I will put a text out I want to keep it like a partnership with some give and take. But I will go very slowly. 🙂
@patricia
Thank you so much!! We have been texting tonight also. She wanted to finish the convo from yesterday. I still don’t know if she’s missing me or not but it’s nice to talk to her. She said she wanted to reach out to see if I was doing well. And she’s glad I am. So I don’t know what that means if she just wanted to know that or actually misses me. I hope there’s a good chance to get back with her. I really want this to work out. I hope she feels the same. And Yes! If we do get back together I will pull the seeing each other,calling and texting back and let each other have space and let things progress slowly. Then we can both feel comfortable and build up the momentum together.
@Patricia
Thanks for your advice I appreciate it. I haven’t contacted her but wanted to update you and let you know she contacted me last night and we had a few texts back and forth. I didn’t mention anything about the breakup or wanting to work things out. We just had a regular catching up convo. She asked me how I’ve been and what I’ve been up to. And she told me what she’s been doing. It was really good to hear from her. Makes me feel like I did something right. I also left the ball in her court and told her to text me if she felt like talking today. So we will see if she texts me. If not I’ll just wait until I hear from her again and go from there. I’m guessing by her reaching out to me she misses me or at the very least was thinking about me so it lifeted a huge weight off my shoulders. I’ve been stressed over this whole deal. I really hope there’s a chance and we can work through this and get back together.
@patricia
We did! That’s why I’m so confused about everything. It makes no sense. She did give me a reason and said she didn’t have the same feelings for me anymore. Which was confusing to me since the entire time we had nothing but a great connection. I think there was too much togetherness which probably caused her to back away and lose the connection. But I think the relationship can be saved if I give her time and space and leave her be. We were both needy she was always asking to see me too. It wasn’t just a one sided thing. We didn’t spend 7 days a week together but at least 4-5. I’ve honestly never spent that much time with a new gf before usually I would see someone a lot less but we had such a great connection it felt right and I wanted to see her all the time. You think I should really wait a month before contacting her? I was going to give it two weeks. I was hoping she would reach out to me first but I miss her and would really like to talk to her. I would always be nice and polite to her she means a lot and I could really see us together for the long run. I’ll try and do whatever it takes to get her back. I hope whatever it was that cause us to break up can be fixed. I want her in my life and she said we could be friends when we broke up. So at least that’s a start to working things out I guess. Thanks for your thoughts and help Patricia!! Anymore advice would be totally appreciated.
