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  • in reply to: Messing up after NC..give up? #83006
    mike.pedrazas
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    @iaia

    Thank you. I gave her her things last week. She failed to give me mine cause it was too much to bring from her place. SO I have to go get it at a later time.

    Yesterday was her birthday, I wished her a happy birthday and that was that. I hadn’t been checking in on social media but I did last night. Her new guy of a month got her diamond earnings which she posted about. I let myself get hurt again but know I have I let go. I love her and want her to be happy. If it’s not with me I’m happy she found someone that’s going to take care of her and isn’t around my circle. I feel less threatened that way, if itmakes sense.

    On my way to my therapy today, but I really appreciate you sharing.

    in reply to: Survived no contact and then did I mess up for good? #82623
    mike.pedrazas
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    @patricia12

    Didn’t ask/say, it was a two minute exchange. I believe her to still be seeing him. I’d probably find out over the weekend via social media cause it’s her birthday and she’s running a big race for it.

    I’d probably send her a happy birthday text/a check in when I can come get my stuff.

    Either way, I’m in a new good place with my therapy and only continue focusing on me.

    in reply to: Survived no contact and then did I mess up for good? #82619
    mike.pedrazas
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    Sorry. I meant I gave her her things back, but she didn’t bring mine*

    in reply to: Survived no contact and then did I mess up for good? #82618
    mike.pedrazas
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    @patricia12

    Thanks again.

    We agreed to exchange stuff and we did so very briefly yesterday. She said my stuff at her place was “too much shit”…even thou I believe it only to be a duffel bag of miscellaneous stuff. So now there’s another day we have to schedule for me to come get it. But she’s busy this weekend with her birthday stuff.

    Onward I go!

    in reply to: Survived no contact and then did I mess up for good? #81219
    mike.pedrazas
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    Thank you.

    She said we lacked “depth”, and that’s what she wants and needs from someone. Cause she’s “ready.”

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