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My advise is that continue with NC because it looks that she knows your weakness that whenever she texts you , you will jump as if you have been waiting for her text.
Let her wonder about how you are doing and what is it that it is keep you from texting her back.You must reply to her text after you have completed your NC.
Talking from experience the more you fall into someone’s trap you will end up needy and it will be hard for you to forget about your ex. Drive your attention to something else as soon as you feel the edge of texting her back.
As per your post you definitely sound like a good guy and your ex is also a good woman. To my understanding and personal experience I think your ex is suffering from depression but still deeply in love with you.
Talking from my personal point of view: My husband is a wonderful husband , never cheats and supportive. Me on the other hand I am always angry, sad and frustrated about everything even my husband but deep down I love him.
The depression becomes severe to a point where I think that divorce might be a solution not because my husband is a bad guy but thoughts of thinking that if maybe I am with my family (mom and siblings) I will be more happier because I stay away from my family and so called “friends” and where i stay I don’t have any friends not even at work. I resent where I stay and my job.Try to talk to your ex and understand what is bothering her and if there is something you can do to help, maybe the distance between where you guys were staying was just too much that she felt lonely. She might be suffering from depression which is causing her to push away the person she loves.
So don’t give up on her yet.
@Patricia- Thanks for your advise, I did not say anything to him. However, yesterday he commented again on my status with “LOL” as I was talking about friendship. But I did not respond as well.
He responded with LOL via pm. Do you think I should say something or just ignore?I will suggest that you start the NC rule again and this time don’t try to contact him.
It might seem hard at first but the outcome of not giving in to your emotions will be a great one, you might end up being over him just like I did with my ex.I initiated NC rule and it has been 74 days and I feel great and no longer need him in my life. To me he is now as good as dead, he is just one useless looser.
