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Hi ,
I read your story and the part where u mention ur visit to her city. And it seems to me that u started to think that ur ex slept with other guys because of birth control pills…
Well just to let u know many women take those pills if they have polycystic ovary (As a treatment for a condition).I dont know why ur ex is taking them but just wanted u to know that there are other reasons why a women would take them. So pls dont jump into conclusions.
Also i believe ur ex needs some space to clear her head. I would give her some space….
And i would advice to go completely silent on social media. That usually makes women very curious :).I think you should on this first date. It will give you more confidence. And you seem to wonder how this new girl is…
From what you wrote I think your ex was not fair to you.
I know a lot fathers who wouldnt even look after their biologica kids while the mother is on vacation. You seemed to care and love the daughter of your ex and when you broke up, she also cut you off completely from her daughters life. I think thats unfair.She needs to be a bit more easy going and understanding.
This is what exactly my ex told me when he was breaking up woth me… he didnt want to be together but he wanted us to spend tome together, to play board games with friends….
I told him no… and i said we wont see each other anymore…
This shook him up. He didnt expect to hear this from me.
But i think i did the right thing for me. I couldnt imagine myself seeing him and not being with him….
And thats a quite selfish request from their side. They still want us in their life but however the way they want.
I thought if he wants to break up with me, then he cant have me in his life anymore…. so that should be the consequence of his decision….
Thats my opinion….
I hope this helps…Hi
I think besides all of what goes in your mind about re-uniting, please also consider how your family life would be with her…
I mean do you think she is the good match for you to be your wife and mother of your kids ?
I am saying all this becuase sometimes we get blinded with the urge of wanting to get back together and we miss to analyse and understand of thats what we really want ….I am not saying its always the same but i had this friend who had the best girlfriend (as he described) but when they got a baby she changed so much, got depressed and even refused to look after the baby.
Having a baby, family is a lot of responsibility and real hard work.
From what you wrote i understand that you would like to have a family. Do you really think this girl is ready for all this ?
Just some thoughts….
I am sure at the end you will figure out whats best for you.
