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  • in reply to: The "waiting game" So nervous… #56743
    man from finland
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    Well i got my answer today on message:Morning,im not ready to be a girlfriend.

    so i texted back:Morning,ok i had to ask it because you havent earlier ask me spend time with your friends.Do you still wanna see me and spend time with me?

    she replied.I want if you want..

    so i replied back:i allready did say it yesterday πŸ™‚ of course i want πŸ™‚ because you are important to me..

    She replied: ok πŸ™‚ and i wanna go play those board games too with you and you are important too.

    I replied back: ok πŸ™‚ i dunno can we go there just “as a friends” i bet they see right away that i like you and we are so close πŸ™‚ so that”s why too i asked what i asked yesterday.

    She replied: why not?

    i text back: i have to say about this thing,even if that could be fun,i cant go there and “act out” something im not are.especially because they are your friends who i havent never met from the time when you tried to get over me.So i can come play board games when we are on relationship,because i would feel odd act out to be “just a friend” and behave like that,because i like you and the way we have been spending time together it would be difficult not to hug or kiss you in one point because you are beatiful πŸ˜‰

    She replied:ok i understand.hug*

    in reply to: The "waiting game" So nervous… #56727
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    Thank you πŸ™‚ i think i need it even tough everything has going kinda positively this far πŸ˜€ its like 0.39 time at the moment and finland and i dont feel sleepy because little nervous πŸ˜€ but i give her time and space now,because she knows now how i feel and what i want and what happens when she answers..

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56640
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    Oh i forgott to mention that at this saturday morning she had phone call while she was waking up next to me and there was her woman friend who with she usually run some route at morning and my ex gf was completely forgot it,it was all good tough her friend didnt get mad to her and after the phone call she was smiling a little because it was all good and i was holding her..

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56639
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    Hello everybody πŸ™‚ i hope weekend has been starting good and doing good progress to get your ex back πŸ™‚

    My ex gf come to my place at this week Thursday at 15.00 pm with her laptop and some her stuff.we hugged kissed and talked a little and started to change her laptops windows 10 to back windows 7 because she didnt like it.It was time consuming so she stayed over on my place, i made some food during it and we watched some tv during eating and talking while her laptop was doing stuff,( i noticed she was more relaxed than earlier times and was hugging me more with feeling so i kissed her during evening many times and hugged her and she didnt turn me down any of those time and we laughed and watched some movie at that evening.( told her many time that she look beatiful during her stay with me)

    When it was time to go to sleep i ask do you wanna sleep on couch or in bed next to me ( our earlier serious talk she sayed she will sleep at couch next time she stay over night) she sayed in bed next to me is fine and we begin sleep after i have brushed teeth and she did the same,middle of night i woke up to need go to the bathroom and i notice my ex gf has comed over on my side of bed and was very close to me and was holding me tight next to her while she was sleeping and her hand was on my pectoral and she was squeezing it a little,so i tried to get out of bed that i wouldnt wake her up and comed back to sleep.I woke up earlier than her at the morning and she was looking so good next to me, i let her sleep in peace but gived her a little kiss on the cheek,she woke up a little and i sayed she can sleep if she wants to and so she did.

    It was a storm in finland at friday and her laptop wasnt finish yet ( needed to update programs etc) so she stayed over, i didnt had much food left so i ask do she wants me go out to the storm get some food for us? and she sayed it was fine.So we spend another day with each other talking hugging and kissing and fixing her laptop.
    We played while we did it and she showed to be more relaxed than other day with her little messy hair and just being more relax and time to time just relax on my couch,told her what she had done at the night and she sayed she did it while she was sleep and was laughing softly and smiling.That day went over fast and she seemed to be more and more relax and smiling more and hugging me more,she even didnt care much anymore if her bra was showing out from her shirt, all tough middle of the day she put on some make up and brushed her hair even tough she wasnt going anywhere.I made the dinner again and after it washed some dishes.

    We was up late watching some movies and playing a little and hoping storm wouldnt get more worse.whe went to sleep when we had done with the laptop and she had more less clothing when we was going to sleep and we went to bed and we both read a little our own books and we talked a little about the book she had read earlier.At the morning i woke up again before her and noticed that again she had turned next to my side of bed and she was holding my hand while she was still sleeping.I wasnt on the rush anywhere so i stayed on bed holding her hand and looking how good she looks while she sleeps.little while later she woke up and looked to my eyes and smiled so i kissed her gently on the lips and hold her next to me,she was little sleepy still so we was on bed little more just her and kissed her few time on the lips,hand and a shoulder.Then i got up and took a little shower and comed back to bed,my ex gf did the same and comed back to sleep a little more,while later i asked do she wants some porridge and she sayed yes,so i went to the kitchen and did that to her while she was still in the bed.while porridge was heating up ( i know how long it takes) i come back to the bedroom and take my all other clothes of but left boxers on and i went to under same cover where my ex gf was and behind her holding her in a spoon position,for a second i tough she tell me to a go away or move over,but no…she started to hold my free hand and let me keep her close to me until that porridge was done and we both got up.

    We did our own things at the morning so she could eat in peace and i could put my place in to the order.i went to the shower,during it my ex gf went to shop buy some food for her own place and i told her take spare keys,after my second shower because i wanted to relax my muscles on hot water ( they where little stuck) she went to shop close to my place and bought her own stuff and more bread to me ( i didnt even ask or sayed that i wanted,i sayed i go to the shop later myself) after little while she was leaving home so i escort her to her car and this time she was the one who started to lean towards me in the elevator to kiss me and i noticed it and kissed her,we walked to her car and i help her put her stuff in there and she hugged me and kissed me and was smiling,i kissed her few times and sayed good bye and continued my way to the shop.about hour later got message from my ex gf: thank you one more time.

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56503
    man from finland
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    Well ex gf comed today around 4 pm,i opened door and i was wearing only towel because had quick shower before she was supposed to come,because i got home about 1 hour earlier so i wanted to be fresh.we talked a little when she comed in and she went to living room to put her laptop on my table while i was dressing up,we hugged and kissed and talked a little,after it we printed her that thing she needed from internet and started work on her laptop to get her sound fixed,it took about few min to get it done and after it she was so happy and was touching and holding me close to her and kissing and allowing me to kiss her and touch her ( almost like we was a couple or on that delight phase on our relationship) after it we started to cook,i made the chicken minced meat and she did the risotto rice.during it i acted little like boyfriend should act with her gf so i kissed her time to time during cooking touched her and told her she looks good and what i got back was smile and kisses and she hold me too a little,when the food was done we went to living room and started to look some tv serie while we was eating.during that tv serie we got done eating and she thanked me from the food and i was little supriced and thanked her back when she got back from kitchen,she wanted to look some running shoes from internet from my laptop and asked could she? i sayed yes and she went to my laptop.she had hard time to find what she was looking for so i come to stand next to her and had my face close to her to see better and i was that close that our cheek almost touched and i unexpectedly kissed her cheek few times,( no negative answer only smile)she didnt find what she was looking for so we started to play game we both like and played it through we had breaks time to time and during those we talked a little and hugged,she hugged me long time and she seemed happy πŸ™‚ ( i felt like she could me long next to her long time )and we kissed.after that we watched some more tv serie and it was getting late,my ex gf sayed she had little stomach pain from the food ( heard later every thing she eats gives her that) so i asked her to stay because its not good idea go home to be alone and with her stomach and hugged her a little,she was not sure so she tried to stay,but after a while she couldnt so i walked her to her car and carried her stuff too to her car and helped her to put them in there,we talked a bit that she would have stayed if there was ice on the windscreen ( not winter here yet only rain water) and we hugged and kissed for goodbye and sayed good night,after a little while i send her a text that i hope she got safely to the home and can sleep with her stomach.she replied back that she got ok to the home and was going to read a book little while and was more worried about me ( i didnt have any symptoms from the food,but she was worried because i wasnt eaten that kinda rice before and i got allergies, i sayed to her that she can call me at the morning to check im ok and we talked about little about her stomach be due to.

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56487
    man from finland
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    my ex gf text today that do i got ink in my printer because she wanted maybe print some bill and our conversation went to fix her laptop a little too.so i sayed if that printing think isnt in a rush we could see tomorrow and print stuff to her and look her laptop,she sayed that maybe we could make dinner together? she will bring the ingredients too..

    in reply to: How to make him text me first? #56404
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    On my experience with my ex gf during these 4 months now. (She send me a first email and did the first contact after over 6 months of total no contact from me) we talked first on few emails.then little later kik messenger.during that time she is the one doing most of the contact while i was doing my own thing and kinda little ignoring her(allways answered her text ofc but i was on my toe’s to see what happens next and is she worth of my phone number.she was the one asking to come see me like 80% of the time.one time she was visiting i gived her my phone number and sayed she is worth of getting it.she started crying on joy and hugged me.after it.it has been mix of phone calls.texts.skype calls and whats app messages ( one point she send only voice messages on whats app)all tough we dont text or call usually when she is visiting her parents but it has happened time to time.like today..so just enjoy your life i bet if you was something special and good for him one point of your life.text will come

    in reply to: How to make him text me first? #56339
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    Well was your ex texting or calling type a person when you was together? because it so depends on a person what she/he does,some people even like talk face to face more.If he really wants to make time it to contact you anyway it should be easy now days, my ex gf send me a email for first contact after a year from breakup and over 6 months Total no contact from me and now we talk daily on whats app,skype,phone and see each other time to time,like today we spend time together over 6 hours..

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56335
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    well got text back too where was text”thank you for company,it was nice evening,going to sleep now. i replied, good night πŸ™‚ im going to sleep too soon..

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56333
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    Hello everybody and good evening from finland πŸ™‚ at last we got some snow in here..but dunno is winter here yet..how is everybody good i hope and going to have nice or decent weekend? πŸ™‚

    Spend some time my ex gf today we talked about this day yesterday and she asked what time she can come? while i was playing fallout 4 and she was listening podcast from radio and while we was on skype,we ended up play again together last night and same routine again πŸ˜€ Today at morning we text morning again and little later my ex text me that she will be little late today she got errand to run and comes right after to my place,i text her back that its ok come when you can,but she was right on time after all we hugged and kissed,talked a little and her picture was on news paper and she told me yesterday on skype that she is little scared to look it and wanted to look it with me, i had news paper few days allready so i had allready seen that picture,she was little nervous so we sit down on my sofa and she was right next to me and i hold and on her back whole time she tried to find the page and read the news and looked the pictures she was on,we ended up play resident evil together and at first she was little panicky because she hasnt play that kinda games long time and she sayed she could play it with pillow with her when she play it alone,but after a while she started to like the game and we laughed and had good time with it,during that game session i sit next to her so that my leg or part of my hand was touching her all the time and time to time i hold my hand on her back or on her leg long time,even one part of the game i put my head on the rest on her shoulder for a while and sayed she can wake me up when she got her puzzle solved,during that she asked that do i have done my decision to come with her to some bands concert next year ( she has asked to me im interest about that kinda concert earlier on skype) and i sayed im not sure can really tell on next month because wasnt sure do i got money by the tickets after saying it she had little panick attack or something and i asked did she got something like that? she sayed yes because for a second she tough that she couldnt get me to come with her and if its about money she can pay my ticket.we talked more about it and it was on next year so i sayed i know better at next month.at the end of the evening she was leaving and she gived me hug and quick kiss and after it i sayed that she can hug me more with passion i dont break so easily.so she hugged me very tight and close to her,while she was dressing her jacket and shoes i sayed i can come escort her to her car,she waited while i dressed up and leave my apartment,on the hallway to elevator we talked and without thinking i tried take her hand and she didnt so she reacted to that a little but was smiling,in elevator i didnt think again and was smiling and tried to kiss her again but she pulled back,when we got outside it was snowing and i had so wrong shoes to that weather and we both laughed about it but continued to walk to her car,during walk she sayed she is stupid about some stuff and sayed no you are not and without thinking again tried to hold her hand,but again she didnt take it,she asked me what im going to do at at Christmas and sayed that she was going to be home,i asked her own home or at her parents home,she sayed her own home and bake some christmas food and make Christmas ham, i sayed im going to be home too and she is welcome to come spend time with me because none should be alone at christmas,she sayed maybe.we finaly got to her car and i stayed with her while she was cleaning her car from snow ( i asked could i help and does she got another brush but she didnt had,she got her car clean and sitted down on drivers seat and turned car on but the door was open ( i wondered why for a second) but then she comed out from the car and hugged me and kissed me and sayed good night it was fun today with me. i smiled back and sayed good night and she get back in her car..i walked slowly away from the car and waved my hand for good bye and started walk back to home…

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56298
    man from finland
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    Thanks for the answers.well she was on theraphy.but she ended it because she sayed that she didnt had anythings to say her terapist and she ended that this week monday.but i heard that if she ever needs it she can go back.during that phone call i learned that she had suicidal toughts at the beginning our contact and talking again and she had looked wikipedia how to die.that kinda answered one question in my mind when she text me one time during our talk that “she wouldnt here anymore if i wasnt in her life” i asked about it does she feel that way still and she sayed no its good and gone because time with me. I know not to get too warm up but i think i will go for a kiss again when i see her face to face again. I dunno how bad shape she was before we met again.but theraphy and going slow had made us this far..will see how it goes

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56286
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    Well i was about to fall a sleep clock was 24.00 (in finland ) and i saw my phone ring.it was my ex gf and we end up talking 1 hour on phone.she had bad evening at the event she was in and sayed that she was still in shock even after she got home few hours ago.we talked about many things to get her mind away from the shock.even sayed that my sexy low radio voice could make her sleep and if she was next to me right now i would take her close to me.she sayed aww..and i even invited her to come sleep with me if she couldnt get tired but talking with me helped and she was getting tired.we talked about the past when we was together that we just take some time.time to time just be close to each other and relax because i knew how active she is in life and my ex gf sayed that it was nice.she was worried too that i dont have umbrella because it has been rainin water lately in finland and wanted to buy one for me and i could pay her back later and she was worried me to get stuck in the place i live because i have been in here so long..we talked about many things during that hour but im too tired to wrote it down..but this i know we are going to see each other this friday and she sounded happy about it and tough should she come with bicycle..its anout 15 kilometers from her place to my place..but now good night its 01.15 at night in finland

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56284
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    Thank you from your text πŸ™‚ well she had few bad relationships and if i listened her right last one before me or one before it the man she was with used her sexually and she sayed shortly that she started to feel numb to it,dunno how and why she woke up in that relationship and how she got out from it,but she told me that and sayed she wasnt ready for sex first times we was meeting and little later she has been saying one time no sex without feelings so no to the sex before relationship and i heard some time ago that only 3 months before we met again she broke up with last guy who she sayed still loved some way but wasnt wanting him back or ever to be contact with him.so i think the where we are now she just need to see that im not the other guys she has been seen after me and totally get over the other guy,to go forward with and i bet brother or friend dont kiss on the lips πŸ˜‰ and i got the vibe when i was at her place that i was first guy there who wasnt the family member,because she sayed before we went there some time ago her addres to me and sayed she trusts me that much that she is ok to tell me that.

    I think next time we talk on skype or see face to face i tease her little bit about what things she finds physical attraction on me? and one note what i havent say yet during yoga we went to pose that didnt feel good on my penis to be right πŸ˜€ and she asked about it on skype later that day is my penis ok? πŸ˜€

    well i have read her movements and how she acts,she is differend than when we was together or after a breakup because she was how to put nicely nympho what kinda worked with me because it fits me,we talked about it first times we met and she was wondering it her self too how she was wanting sex so much and i know studying take”s a lot her time at the moment and she is focusing on that.But last few times whe have spend together face to face she has been little more open up and relaxed in my company,even she know i want to date her and she being my gf and have sex with her..so who would stay or spend time with that kinda person if she dont got some interest towards me?

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #56275
    man from finland
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    Hello,how is everybody? ok or better i hope πŸ™‚ i have been little busy and have even started training again it feels good πŸ™‚

    This has going between me and my ex gf lately…

    Last friday she gived me a ride to a health center to get some tests done to me while she waited in car because those was quick tests and when i got back to her car i asked where to next? she sayed we could go visit her place to me see it what it looks like, so we went there and she showed her house to me whe was there a while talking and looking her house and paying little cash for the gasoline , after i while i asked to her show me washing machine because she had problems with it so we looked it and it was little wrong way in the bathroom so my ex gf sayed that she should call somebody to help to move it,to that i sayed that im here we two can get it moved easily and so we did,it took a while because room was small to get it right place but we got it done and my ex gf was happy to not needing to worry about it anymore, little later she sayed that should we get going to get me home and i sayed yes,after we got to my place parking lot i asked to my ex gf does she wanna come in for a while and she answered yes because she had nothing else to do,so we went inside and i made myself a bread because i was little hungry and asked do she want something and she sayed yes she is little hungry so i asked does she want some porridge and she sayed yes so i made it to her,we talked a little while she was eating it and watched some tv serie,after i while she left and while she was leaving we hugged and i thank her for the ride.when she left a while later i left to go outside to visit my mom and do some shopping,when i got back home few hours later i noticed message from my ex gf in skype at my phone,there was only this “can i call?” so i wroted back gimme few min i eat and drink something before i call and after it i called her to her phone because i tough it was urgent,she sayed that we better talk on skype.so i opened my laptop and called her again.she told me that she was scared and wanted to talk with somebody ( in my mind was question why me? she got lots of people to call etc) so we continued talking and she was scared about some event where she is supposed to me serve some food and drinks alone because other person was sick or something and it is important event so she was really nervous too,we ended up talk about it and other stuff like few hours and after it i asked do i still got the skill to make her feel better after talking and listening to her? she sayed yes and after it we played a little online and sayed good night to each other.

    At saturday we text good morning to each other and talked little small talk and we did our own thing during day,at evening i worked up with weights and after it went to shower after i got out there i got message on my skype did i hear what happen in paris and we talked about it a little,she was studying and i was waiting to my friend to come back online to play with me so i didnt message her so much,but she asked me help to fix her phone and i offered my help online and sayed it would be much easier if i could see it myself,so she send a pic what she had done and i sayed what would she need to do,but sayed it would be better if i could see it myself and she should come to myplace tomorrow she sayed maybe and we continued talking while i waited my friend and when he got online i sayed good night to her and she replied.

    Next day we both send good morning text and talked little small talk but nothing about her coming to my place that day,while i was doing my morning stuff and waking up πŸ˜€ after few messages a had message out of the blue, what time is ok to come my place and i told her the time and told i was going for a walk and visit my mom so i text her when im back home.when i got back home i text her im home she is welcome to come and she replied she eats first and comes after it..after i while she was at my door wearing college tracksuit and top under her winter jacket and had hair up in ponytail she looked more more relaxed than earlier she was at my place and so damn good and hot πŸ˜‰ we hugged and talked a little and i asked what she wants to do and we ended up play a little while we talked little more,she had her phone with her so we started to fix it afte little gaiming together and she was interested about it and was leaning towards me on the couch and on my pc where where she was sitting next to me very close that our feet touched and she was leaning towards me whole time and she was enthusiastic doing that phone fixing with me i could tell because she snort accidently and bursted laughing while i looked her smiling to her,it took long time to fix it so i had to take wc break and i told her that while i had my hand on her knee and looked right in to her eyes that i need little break,after i comed back from bathroom she sayed she needs to go too and dont do anything while she is gone.so i waited and she got back in the end we got her phone working again and i sayed that as a reward i want a kiss,she didnt say no or not even thinking long to agree with it and even stand up next to me to give better kiss,i hold her next to me and kissed her not once but three times and she was supriced and sayed on high voice hello and i just smiled back.After it my ex gf sayed do i wanna do yoga ? and i sayed yes and we ended up doing it..it was hard because i havent done much of it ever and my ex gf has done it a while now.middle of it i got hot so i had to go topless and take my t-shirt off and while we was doing yoga we talked and laughed a little and i looked my ex gf and she looked so relaxed and so good looking next to me.after it ended we talked a little and while she was leaving i hugged her and kissed her and she just smile back and sayed bye bye ( on our earlier serious talk she wanted no kissing because it didnt feel good) but now she seemed enjoy it..after i while i got message to skype that she is going to play online so i offered her to my company and she agreed to take it so we played and talked and ended up say again good night to each other..

    Next morning again good morning text and nothing more i did my stuff during a day and worked out with weights at evening and wrote on skype working up with weight after it “shower and making dinner” and while i was on shower my ex gf had wrote a text” wanna play after it?” i replied sure after im done eating and she replied tell her on whats app when im done and went off from skype..so i text her and we ended up playing again for few hours and say good night again on skype call.

    Next day i send her a good morning text ( no answer) and little later that day good luck for today serving thing and got answer little later that Sorry she hasnt able read my text earlier because was out from town with her friend and was coming back home and her thing is tomorrow and asked how im doing? i told her how im doing and what i have done in my day and we talked little about her trip on whats app while she was coming back from the trip. little later we talked little more on skype by writing and we did it a while and then she wrote to me good night she is going to read a book and i replied good night…

    this morning we both text good morning to each other and im going to after i wrote this to a end send her message to good luck with this evening at the event.

    in reply to: Is this a good sign from my ex gf ?? #54979
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    Hello everybody,im sorry for typos before hand,before i write down this text because i found out why i wasnt feeling sleepy at that one night i was on this forum because i had odd feeling, next morning my father called to me during while i was eating at morning while i was just woke up, that my mother has been in very bad accident with bicycle and is in hospital can i come over when i can to their home? my world crushed down after i shut off that phone call and i ended up crying and asking myself is this real? im awake or still in sleep and having a bad dream??

    after i get myself a little back together i called my ex gf and we talked a little and i sayed what has happened and after it i told my best friend and my little brother too but he allready knew it…

    so my day was that i went to see my father and get more info what has happened? after it i comed back home to eat before we was going to see my mother in hospital and i texted to my ex gf that could she come in that day to my company after i get home and she agreed..

    I must say its most hardest thing to see your mother in hospital bed under heavy surveilance and tear in her eye while she saw that whole family come to see her..

    after i was getting home i called my ex gf that im walking home can she come? and she sayed yes after eating and after little while she was at my place, we talked first a little what has happened and played a little to get my mind off and watched some tv serie,we ended up talking about us after i took a shower and its when things got really interesting

    I found out that she has been “used” sexually by one guy and she was getting to use to it and one other guy she just ended up have sex with and she got angry herself because she got horny and wanted sex so it happened,this latest guy she treated bad after those 2 guys and if i remember right that guy was fell love to her too,
    she sayed that she didnt feel anything first towards him but started love him too..Dunno what happened but she sayed that she hasnt been in contact to that guy who she got feelings for from may. ( this morning i looked my emails and this was just 2 months before she first contact me via email)

    So we ended up talk a lot of things because we both got feelings to each other and we both felt that way that it would feel bad if me or her ends up daiting or having sex with somebody else and we talked about our future and she was asking how i feel about she going school,moving to live somewhere and about our future, i answered those questions but mostly about that because all that was happened to her that i feel she is worth to get to know better and wait that our feelings gets stronger and we end up daiting and having sex till that time we just spend time together and get to know each other better.

    See seemed ok about it and kinda waiting for it too, she was going to leave myplace but it got late because we talked long so she ended up sleeping next to my on my bed,we talked a little more on bed too and she ended up asking can she hold my hand before falling a sleep and i sayed yes..and after a while she fell a sleep.

    I woke up at night go to bathroom and got back to bed to notice she is having a bad dream and while she was sleeping she grabbed my hand and started holding it so i stayed a wake a while and brushed gently her hair and looking over her that if her nightmare got heavier and she starts move more i woke her up,but it didnt happen..

    at the morning she woke up and allmoust right away was going to home because she got meeting with old school mate from years back this day,during her leaving i asked her do i have worth to wait and see where we are going and give me a chance to be more than we are now? she didnt answer right away because was just woke up so i got text little later from her when she was at home and it was first like this that im worth to wait to be ready have sex with?when she is ready again.

    I answered,that is a part a question im more im worth to wait to us to be a couple? she answered that im that worth, but she is scared that what if it takes years to her be ready and when we end up together after it that i curse her for lost years.

    I answered that i think it not will take years its takes time because many positive signs between us and my actions towards her.

    our talk revealed a lot but got me thinking a little how things go? im real to her and not going to be another bandage relationship?

    but we have only been on talking seeing state 86 days and we are on this point on us so i try keep positive..

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