Popping up meaning he is somehow always brought up in a conversation or ill hear that he continues to talk crap about me to everyone for whatever reason.. or ill get a message like the one above from this girl he’s only known and been dating for less than a month… I don’t ever do anything to get involved with him or what his life consist of but somehow he or his actions are brought to my attention through whatever it may be. I have so many questions unanswered i’m so confused and upset but i’m doing alright. A lot better anyway.