@patricia12
Oh and here I thought I covered everything, sorry!
We were together for about 9 months and knew each other prior to that for about 2 years. We met through a frat so obviously both were pretty skeptical and were very stubborn (for our own good) about our feelings.
Overall our relationships was good except for the fights and him not being good at emotionally supporting me.
I’m easily a doom thinker and hurt him with it. So I’m definitely taking my time now to work on that. Set myself some goals to achieve before I even think of texting him because I feel rather underachieved on my career department and I think that should give me some confidence.
He on the other hand is also aware of his mistakes and also told me when breaking up that he would like to find a solution on his lack of mental support before considering a relationship again. He feels like he should be a boyfriend that is able to support his partner with every need and for me the issue was emotionally.
Thank you for taking your time to reply <3