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Well, this is a complicated situation. I feel that your ex doesn’t feel happy with anything because she keeps comparing her life with everybody else’s and she takes rush decisions (like this rebound relationship, which is moving faster and faster because she wasn’t feeling happy enough, so she keept asking more and more) in order to reach something that she can’t get, because the problem is inside her.
I guess the block-unblock is a way of trying to know if you are watching…and if these things affect you, because she needs to feel thaht you’re not over her. Was she like that when you were together? Did she changed with her brother wedding?Thank you a lot…I will try to do this…
And I’m going to your post right now, I wish I can help youThank you a lot. You are right.. The thing is that his bday is in July so it would be weird doing it now… And since we don’t live in the same city, I need to rebuild the connection with texts and this is difficult because we don’t talk much… I don’t want to force the things but I am scared of not getting him back so, I don’t act desperate, I don’t chase him, I don’t text him constantly (we text each other once a week or so=, but I am having an awful time, like a nightmare..
Thank you a lot for your answer. No, I don’t have any excuse… Well I have one of his Christmas resents, which arrived too late (he broke up with me on Dec 28) but he doesn’t know. I keep it because it is something he really wanted and very hard to find and I was hoping to give it to him for his birthday (in July), if we were better…But things are getting worse day by day and I don’t want to use this excuse because it would seem a desperated move and he will keep even more disctance.
I have plenty of excuses for going to his city (I am searching for job there, it is he most important city in our county) but it wouldn’t work, I need to get him closer by texts before. He hasn’t texted me in ten days and I am afraid he never will again… So forcing things would be worst (talking about our situation, two months after the break up, he told me not to force the things, tah let it grow…but it is not growing and I am more and more sad each day)
