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I really need your help. I never sent him an apology on Friday because they put me in to work on my week off, so I was going to do it today, but he has deleted me off of Facebook today before I got the chance!!
I don’t understand why he would delete me off of Facebook now??I don’t know what to do now because I had the perfect apology all prepared and now I can’t send it to him! I still have his number but I’m guessing he probably blocked that too.
I know it’s silly but it’s really upset me and I really don’t want to have to face him at work now either
What hurts the most is that I was going to send this as a final thing of getting it off of my chest and then if I got nothing back I was going to try and move on, so now I’m stuck
@patricia12 – I’m thinking of sending him a text this Friday to apologise for being needy and pushing him for answers, I’ve got a the week off work after this so maybe it will give him space to think about it?
He’s being really cold again at work, yesterday we kept accidentally almost walking into each other and as a reaction I apologised and he just walks off pretty quickly, and he always seems annoyed at me when I’m at work, which other people have noticed too.
Even just in the staffroom when we are both in there together, yesterday we sat in an awkward silence, which people then commented to me afterwards.
I dropped out of going out for drinks with my work friends because I knew he was going to be there – I really wanted to go but I felt like he was invited first and it would only annoy him if I went too.
His behaviour just isn’t changing and it’s frustrating me at work. I don’t understand how he has done this to me and yet he doesn’t seem to be able to deal with it? Did I hurt him too much by pushing for answers after the breakup? Even so the last time I pushed him to talk was over a month ago, can he still be annoyed at me for hurting him??@patricia12 – I need some more advice. I managed to get through 30 days no contact without giving in and I have tried to work on myself, but I am stuck with what to do next.
He hasn’t contacted me, and I feel like if I contact him he will still ignore me. He told one of my friends just over a week ago that he doesn’t want to talk to me at the moment, do I need to give him more time?
But his behaviour at work is confusing – since he told my friend this we keep making eye contact and I have had people say he is glancing at me, but yet he still ignores me. He also joins in on group conversations in am in, which makes me feel awkward because I am so confused over his behaviour, and I tend to withdraw from the conversation. I don’t want to overanalyse what he is doing, but I don’t know how or when to take the next step.@patricia12
Back to normal at work – his way of dealing with this seems to be to pretend I don’t exist, today he don’t hold open the doors he walked through when I was behind him with my hands full!I’m 16 days into no contact – should I break it to apologise or wait till the end? And do I need to do this face to face? I feel like if he is pretending I don’t exist then he will just ignore me.
Thank you so much for all your advice
@patricia12
Thank you so much for your reply.
I get it now, we moved too fast and spent too much time in contact. We only ever spent two days of the week actually together, fitting around work and me being at uni – the rest of the time was always texting.
I also realise I was quite needy, but he never said anything about this? He said he liked being the person that was there for me
After the month should I apologise for my needy behaviour both in and after the relationship?
We had a weird moment at work yesterday, we both kind of just stared at each other for a few moments – I know this probably doesn’t mean anything but it made a change to him not looking at me at all at work
