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i would just write
“hey i was,just wondering how youve been. Everything is pretty good on my end and i,hope youre doing just as well.”
simple, easy, no preassureThis girl is a mess, she thrives off of attention.
Obviously she cant handle being alone. You dont need someone like that. And its good that you realzed this on your own. Dont reach out to her for a long long while. Let her knw youre not her crutch.@ChrisLovesChris
its normal to feel,that way but it will pass. If it didnt, everyone would be unhappy. Bad times come and go.@Merchaunt
Yeah. When he vanishes, I vanish as well. Hes the one that breaks the silence. I have told him what I once felt. He will say “Yeah but i,just wasnt feeling that way that soon. It was going too fast.” So,whatever I stopped talking that way to him. Now that ive shown him that im not chasing him like i was last year, he runs after me. The times he argued with me, he came running to apologize.
He knows that now hes not a priority to me. Back then, he was. But now, I make it known that nobody but myself is #1.@ChrisLovesChris
Well sweets, just give it time and perhaps he’ll see that you changed for the better. But,its gonna be a rough road.@ChrisLovesChris
nutcases are all bad.
This isnt your fault. Not at all. Dont feel that way.@JeanValins
well all this happened almost 3 years ago and hes been gone for good for a long time. It all worked out well, I met my first real love after I got rid of him. Life is funny at times lol@JeanValins
yeah he dumped me and all that happened. Even when I went to the police, the sherrif said “guy is a sicko.Do yourself a favor and get that restraining order ASAP.”@ChrisLovesChris
yeah he was and still is not all there mentally. He comes up with some weird stories and,he begins to believe his own lies. I know,his father had major drug issues and alcoholic abuse before he was born,so im prettybsure whatever damage his father did to himself was passed on to my ex. I know my ex’s older brother has mental issues too. I was unaware of all this until the very end of our relationship. But hes been out of my life for almost 3 beautiful years 🙂 and i met my first real love after him. so it all worked out.He found out I had met someone a few weeks after our final break up, he convinced himself that i had been cheating which I wasn’t and had not. In his rage he threatened my life and threatend to leak private pictures he had taken of me while I had been asleep. He also threatened me by saying should I have any daughters in the future that he would love to get his hands on them. Therefore I SLAPPED him with a restraining order ASAP.
i dont sugar coat anything so sorry if this comes off as too harsh.
This new guy had been there before those two days.Testing out the water with someone new THAT fast was already being thought of prior to those two days. Honestly, she got used to you, you guys grew apart. Thats why she went looking elsewhere, she got bored and lonely. And i say this because when you really need a breather from a commitment, youre alone. Youre not fooling around with someone or the idea of. She obviously cannot be alone, thats why she jumped into something so fast. I say, move out. You want this girl back, leave. Dont contact. Keep your life on the DL. Be mysterious. Work on you. Make yourself happy.Not sugar coating anything but you will ache. And it may be for sometime but just keep yourself busy. Take a walk, go for a run, learn a new skill or language, take up a new hobby. Do something that calls for your entire focus. You will eventually start to feel less and less sad. Trust me, when I got my heart broken by my ex of nearly 4 years, it was so hard. We had to do no contact because i had to stick a restraining order on him. The NC felt like he was dead. Complete cut and dry. The days seemed so hazzy and nights were just a daze of lonliness. I kept myself going by reconnecting with old friends and getting closer to new friends. I dove myself into school just to keep my mind from wandering. Time eventually began to heal me as did accomplishing little goals I set up for myself.
