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First of all thank you for the response!
When we originally broke up, she didn’t want to talk or see me at all, unless it was an emergency! Then after about 2 weeks of no contact she started to message me! Then after 5 or 6 weeks of no contact we started to talk again! That’s when we started to hangout! After about 3 weeks of talking and hanging out, she said that she didn’t want to do it anymore, because she felt like we were going to rush back into it. Since then, I started to do no contact and it’s going on a month now! I do not know if I should try to go after her again…
I think there is a chance that we could get back together.
What do you guys think I should do?
UPDATE:
We just talked on the phone and she told me that she doesn’t want to do this right now, and that she wants to stop hanging out, because she feels it’s not good for either of us and that she’s not ready for this! So, I asked her if she wanted to cut all ties and stop talking to each other, she said no! She wants to be friends, but just texting and playing video games! So, what should I do at this point? Just keep moving forward? I basically lashed out at her and told her that what she did was unfair, that I was doing fine in life and she dragged me back in and teased me! Anything will help!
Thank you for your response,
The things you said, are very calming and is putting my mind to ease right now! I really appreciate what you said! It makes a lot of sense! I really hope I can win her back, because I know she is the girl for me and I don’t want to be with anyone else!
Thanks Again!
Sorry i forgot to add 1 more thing, she likes almost everything I post on social media!
I should also mention, that anytime I call, text, or snap her, if shes not at work, she basically answers immediately! We have been talking a lot lately, but I feel as I’m the only one who initiates it. I mean she does message me first like 2 times a week, but the rest of the time I’m the one messaging first! Most our text convos are short, but when we talk on the phone, its usually anywhere from an hour to 2 or 3. We, even started to play video games over xbox live together again!
Yah, that’s what I think I’m going to do That! I’ll wait for her to messaged me!
Thanks for the Advice
I forgot to mention that she messaged me back within like 30 seconds after I sent the message!
I messaged her today about a memory that I had of a good time we had together while I was cleaning my room, it was the first time I’ve messaged her in a week! (I know it says 30 days to avid no contact) But, I felt like it was a good time to contact her, I have made quite a few changes in 2 weeks and I am feeling really confident!
I sent her a quick text and she said that she was glad that it put a smile on my face and then she continued to tell me what she was doing today and then I told her that I needed to get back to cleaning and she said Have fun and I said Thanks you too and then I ended the conversation!
Should I continue to talk to her or step back into no contact? I mean it seems like she is really eager to talk to me. I guess I can wait and see if she messages me later on, on her own!
Any advice would be great!
Thanks
First, thank you for the response! It’s good to hear a different opinion from someone not close to the situation!
Second, I have been following the book and not contacting her right now, but I do plan on contacting her when the 30 day period is done. That’s if I feel ready to do so!
Finally, again thank you for the repsonse
