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@Atea Aphrodite,
My NC is only 3 days away from30 days. I saw on my ex twitter that the guy he was seeing the relationship is over. He seems sad and heart broken over him. The rebound relationship is over.. Idk how to approach him. Do I mention the other guy? Do I keep it light and casual. I feel like if I play my cards right this could be make or break?I owe that time to myself because I can never get those 4 months back. So with these 4 months I’m gonna work on myself!
Hey guys I’m still going through NC guys my journey has been quite the roller coaster! Some days I feel like superman and other days like today I am sad lonely contemplating. My ex broke up with me in July and we stayed in contact until December. He strung me along for so long and in November he started seeing someone. Up into recently I feel like his new guy has been causing problems. I feel like that’s karma. Because he chose that guy over me and look where it got him. A week before they got “serious” he told me in his car that we would always be a part of each other’s lives someway or another because he can’t get enough of me and I can’t get enough of him.
So I’m thinking to myself then why won’t you take me back? Do you guys think he really didn’t love me because he chose that other guy over me? I’m having a hard time understanding why would he choose another guy over me if he really cared. Just like I mention a couple days ago he called me and I didn’t answer which felt amazing because now he will respect me because I’m not his safety blanket anymore. He strung me along for 4 months. So guess how long my NC is gonna be??! 4 months.Hey guys I was thinking today about NC. Do you all believe this method actually works? I sometimes feel like going weeks and weeks without contacting your ex will make them forget about you. But most importantly NC is about working on yourself? I feel like I answered my own question lol but all I’m saying is I feel like with NC with your ex wouldn’t that hurt the connection?
Hey everyone!
I’m on my 22nd day today and I’m doing ok I could be doing a lot better but everyone heals differently. I have mentioned earlier that my ex was seeing someone and it ended quite fast. He called me today and I didn’t answer! Now that him and the rebound didn’t work he wants to run back to me lol I have to wait to my NC is over to reach back out. I think this is a good sign though I don’t have much longer!@aphrodite @atea1234 i know you guys told me to hold off a little longer if my ex is in a relationship after my NC. But I’m guilty of lurking on my ex twitter and he posted “guys come and go” and few other things that indicate the fairytale is over. I have one week left of NC. This maybe a good time to contact him. But I kinda feel like since that relationship didn’t work out I thought he would try to contact me lol I guess that’s not the case. In the mean time I gotta continue NC!
@atea1234 I was on a dating site and I saw my ex on there. I’m guessing the rebound relationship is going rocky. After my NC and he is still on there I will contact him but if not I’ll keep the NC going :3
@aphrodite you’re right. I gotta focus on myself. Something awkward happened tho. Last week I saw my ex’s BF where I worked.i think he was checking me out. I work at a grocery store and he bought stuff and left then came back inside and bought more stuff and was still staring at me. I was like ??? He also wrote me on Grindr aswell and I’m like does my ex even know he was on Grindr..what I’m trying to say is this guy is no good for him I’m just saying he seems like a douche
@aphrodite even though my ex is seeing someone, do you think my ex thinks of me or misses me?
@atea1234 Ok I guess I will have to just let it run its course. The only way I would know is by twitter because of NC. In the mean time I gotta focus on rebuilding
@atea1234 ok I’m totally gonna do the 60 day challenge! But what if he’s still seeing someone?
Hey everyone!
I just wanted to say that i am on my 21st day of NC!
(this is the longest i have ever done with my ex of NC!) So i have to admit that i am oober nervous about contacting him after 30days. Of course it doesnt help my confidence that he is currently seeing someone. But im confident and happy and my glow has to shine through. to be honest i feel like my chances are slim of him reconciling because hes seeing someone. but it wont hurt to try. I read on here that i have to let it be his idea of getting back with me right? well when we meet up what do we talk about? I dont wanna bring us up at all and i also do not want him to talk about the new guy. I just dont want our conversation to be akward or go bad. I see him as a friend and i know i can keep it cool during our hang out but im just curious of how he will act. How do you act with your ex when you meet up with them after NC. Im sure i can be confident and fun but i still feel a little unprepared?Thanks guys for the advice/support! I will definitely work on becoming the person I want to be!
guys is it really possible to get your ex back after NC? When theyre in a rebound relationship? I dont understand really? after NC im a new fresh person but how will that make my ex wanna ditch the new guy and come back to me? Even if i make positive changes to my life and a better happy person what if he still wants to be my friend only? hmm
