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  • kaila
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    Penelope, any news? How are you?

    kaila
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    Penelope, any news? How are you?

    in reply to: I want him back after 4 years !! :/. #57593
    kaila
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    A lot of time has passed. So the right thing is to keep seeing him, and just see how it goes. Don’t put too much pressure and stress too much. Just let things flow. If its meant to happen it will. Worrying won’t do. And it’s impossible to answer to your question as you probably imagine ahah

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    I think that she is just maybe opening up you shouldn’t scare her away. Maybe in some time (a few weeks) share with her a fond memory you recall just like she did with you. “Im doing this and remembered the time where xyz happened” . Nothing too romantic or pushy. Just a really nice memory you BOTH enjoyed. A letter might be too much and scare her aways. It’s my 2 cents

    kaila
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    Ahahah πŸ™‚ I laughed at the part you said you could hear me yell your name ahah πŸ˜›

    And you are always welcomed to share how you feel and vent. What we (or I) hate to hear is you doubting what needs to be done and going back and forth.

    Yeah I think you should have stayed there for a bit if you were not rushing! Penelope!!!

    But it’s fine. It’s the second short encounter in which he has been pleasant with you, so at the third time it will happen! πŸ™‚

    It’s ok, you are overthinking. Maybe she wasn’t feeling well herself. You have no idea what might be going on in her life. So don’t take it personally!

    Penelope, happy new years, and at midnight, think about what is important in your life. YOU. Make this new year about You, and making your life what you want it to be. Think positive. By midnight take a deep breath. Breath in courage and positiveness, and breath out the past and negative feelings and try to start 2016 with a renewed energy <3

    in reply to: A Message to all Brokenhearted #57349
    kaila
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    Hey @HurtingLikeYou how have you been? Haven’t seen you here in awhile. I hope you are handling things better.

    Happy new years, and at midnight, think about what is important in your life. YOU. Make this new year about You, and making your life what you want it to be and to get closer to your goals. Think positive. By midnight take a deep breath. Breath in courage and positiveness, and breath out the past and negative feelings and start 2016 with a renewed energy <3

    This is also for everyone else out here on these boards, especially those that have been struggling this year do to the end of their relationship. You can and will overcome this. Much strength everyone.

    kaila
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    Ahah! You scared me there for a bit! Yeah, but it’s good πŸ™‚ Hopefully next time.

    And you are welcome. Thank you for being so nice and encouraging as well!

    If we don’t talk before, happy New Year! If you haven’t done it, try to write some goals down for this new year and new phase of your life *

    kaila
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    Stop testing the waters, just invite me. Why didn’t you do it? He was in a good mood what more did you need?

    in reply to: A Message to all Brokenhearted #57177
    kaila
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    You’re welcome πŸ™‚ I think this is a good topic to share some tips and positivism, do you allow me to do so?

    Note: Not everyone breaks up because they don’t love anymore. There are a lot of shades of grey.

    End of a relationship

    in reply to: A Message to all Brokenhearted #57155
    kaila
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    <3

    kaila
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    Ahah πŸ˜› His ex’s mom. Your brain has been working again πŸ™‚ I hope you have a great Christmas! Happy Holidays Penelope <3

    kaila
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    Ok so that wasn’t that bad, and that was probably his mom?

    kaila
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    Penelope…. Please… STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS

    And sure, go ahead

    kaila
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    What answer do you want exactly?

    And about not knowing why he “hates” you (it probably isn’t about hate), relationship fails are never one sided so I’m sure you can figure out why he drifted. Or he just didn’t have strong feelings. Deep down you probably know why. Unless you are very young then you might not know. Anyway I’m sorry for what you are going thru

    kaila
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    Ahahah πŸ˜› What do you mean by “hook”? Do you the excuse that you are leaving for arranging something with him? I do think you need it. But you already have it πŸ˜› Not like you need to wait to get it.

    That would indeed be great…. Maybe you can tell him in a way he won’t be sure if it’s a dinner with more people or not. Maybe that way he would feel more comfortable with going? It’s really for you to decide. But that would indeed be nice πŸ™‚ You could buy the groceries, whine, put some nice music. I really don’t know how to help you with getting him to say yes to your invitation. If you got his number and called him, what do you think would happen?

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