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March 15, 2016 at 8:34 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #59917
Penelope, any news? How are you?
March 15, 2016 at 8:34 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #59918Penelope, any news? How are you?
A lot of time has passed. So the right thing is to keep seeing him, and just see how it goes. Don’t put too much pressure and stress too much. Just let things flow. If its meant to happen it will. Worrying won’t do. And it’s impossible to answer to your question as you probably imagine ahah
December 30, 2015 at 10:23 pm in reply to: 5 Months of No Contact. She positively contacted me..is Time to Reach back out?? #57363I think that she is just maybe opening up you shouldn’t scare her away. Maybe in some time (a few weeks) share with her a fond memory you recall just like she did with you. “Im doing this and remembered the time where xyz happened” . Nothing too romantic or pushy. Just a really nice memory you BOTH enjoyed. A letter might be too much and scare her aways. It’s my 2 cents
December 30, 2015 at 9:18 am in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57351Ahahah π I laughed at the part you said you could hear me yell your name ahah π
And you are always welcomed to share how you feel and vent. What we (or I) hate to hear is you doubting what needs to be done and going back and forth.
Yeah I think you should have stayed there for a bit if you were not rushing! Penelope!!!
But it’s fine. It’s the second short encounter in which he has been pleasant with you, so at the third time it will happen! π
It’s ok, you are overthinking. Maybe she wasn’t feeling well herself. You have no idea what might be going on in her life. So don’t take it personally!
Penelope, happy new years, and at midnight, think about what is important in your life. YOU. Make this new year about You, and making your life what you want it to be. Think positive. By midnight take a deep breath. Breath in courage and positiveness, and breath out the past and negative feelings and try to start 2016 with a renewed energy <3
Hey @HurtingLikeYou how have you been? Haven’t seen you here in awhile. I hope you are handling things better.
Happy new years, and at midnight, think about what is important in your life. YOU. Make this new year about You, and making your life what you want it to be and to get closer to your goals. Think positive. By midnight take a deep breath. Breath in courage and positiveness, and breath out the past and negative feelings and start 2016 with a renewed energy <3
This is also for everyone else out here on these boards, especially those that have been struggling this year do to the end of their relationship. You can and will overcome this. Much strength everyone.
December 26, 2015 at 9:25 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57265Ahah! You scared me there for a bit! Yeah, but it’s good π Hopefully next time.
And you are welcome. Thank you for being so nice and encouraging as well!
If we don’t talk before, happy New Year! If you haven’t done it, try to write some goals down for this new year and new phase of your life *
December 23, 2015 at 7:21 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57215Stop testing the waters, just invite me. Why didn’t you do it? He was in a good mood what more did you need?
You’re welcome π I think this is a good topic to share some tips and positivism, do you allow me to do so?
Note: Not everyone breaks up because they don’t love anymore. There are a lot of shades of grey.
<3
December 20, 2015 at 11:48 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57152Ahah π His ex’s mom. Your brain has been working again π I hope you have a great Christmas! Happy Holidays Penelope <3
December 19, 2015 at 6:10 am in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57108Ok so that wasn’t that bad, and that was probably his mom?
December 16, 2015 at 4:29 pm in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #57043Penelope…. Please… STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS
And sure, go ahead
December 14, 2015 at 5:38 am in reply to: Draft long msg to send to my ex after NC 30. Really need guys opinion or view. #56939What answer do you want exactly?
And about not knowing why he “hates” you (it probably isn’t about hate), relationship fails are never one sided so I’m sure you can figure out why he drifted. Or he just didn’t have strong feelings. Deep down you probably know why. Unless you are very young then you might not know. Anyway I’m sorry for what you are going thru
December 13, 2015 at 6:12 am in reply to: Terrified of intimacy; 5 years of mixed sig Can I still tell him I love him? #56898Ahahah π What do you mean by “hook”? Do you the excuse that you are leaving for arranging something with him? I do think you need it. But you already have it π Not like you need to wait to get it.
That would indeed be great…. Maybe you can tell him in a way he won’t be sure if it’s a dinner with more people or not. Maybe that way he would feel more comfortable with going? It’s really for you to decide. But that would indeed be nice π You could buy the groceries, whine, put some nice music. I really don’t know how to help you with getting him to say yes to your invitation. If you got his number and called him, what do you think would happen?
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