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Looks like you do need to work on yourself. Don’t worry a lot of us get lost in a relationship. Use this time to find you again. Honestly will be for the best.
The being ill and wanting her to come over… I understand her point of view. Like yes you needed her but you could have facetimed or called each other. Like she could have got really sick. I get why you were upset too. This happened to me and my ex bf couple years back.
He got back from a festival all sick. I was lierally heading off to one myself the following week. I could afford to be ill during that time out there camping. He got really upset with me and argued with me over it. Saying how we haven’t seen each other in so long and wouldn’t till I got back. I wasn’t being selfish I was looking out for me. He came to understand that. So don’t look at it as her not wanting to be there for you. She simple didn’t want to get ill. When you say things like that to a girl. We can feel pressured too. She probably felt terrible. I felt terrible. But there is always a next time to see each other.
Yes no contact is needed. She gave you a ray by saying that to your mum. Hold on to that. And use this time to focus on you.
Thank you for your reply Patricia
Yeah where it’s short I can’t be angry or upset how it all panned out. Just disappointed with myself for finally letting my walls down and him to do this.
I messaged him this morning before reading this reply actually but on my old phone. As I didn’t need the “will he won’t he message back” while at work.
I was typing and he came into the chat instantly but I hadn’t finihed typing yet. You can’t hide on Snapchat. Anyway obviously he read it instantly. I didn’t look back at my phone. Put it down and head to work.
So will keep you posted once I get home 🙂
