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I’m wary of getting into a relationship right now, definitely do not want to start one right now, but the idea (and mindset) is helping me move on.
I’m from central Europe, and I always wanted to go to England for university. Hopefully brexit will not affect the students as much, but if it does I still have some backup plans on mainland Europe. I want to go to England because I really like the country, and the universities there is are more respected internationally than the ones here, so if I ever were to change my mind and want to move somewhere else, it’d be easier to do so with a uk uni degree. I also have some friends and family there, so I want to take the opportunity of having a home-like environment and the great schools.
Yeah, I want to go to a university in England and then become a pilot. I really love traveling, flying especially, math and physics, so it’s probably the best job for me.
I can feel that the obsession is going away. I started to work on my self-esteem, and I’m trying to approach new people, and from the few conversations I’ve had with girls I’ve realised that I can be just as happy with someone else. I’m not over her completely yet, but I’m working hard and hopefully I will be over her in no time.
I used to think about whether I should try to get her back, but talking to my friend and my dad made me realise that that’s the last thing I should be thinking about now. Instead I’m looking around for the other available people. Hopefully I don’t get myself into a bad rebound.
Thank you for the advice,
I’ve been focusing on my hobbies the whole of no contact. Some days I spend over two hours practicing each of them.
I’m trying not to think about it and when it does come to my mind I just force myself to think of something else.
I also started a diary where I try to write down all the things that happen in the day, and as time goes on I’m slowly starting to loose the need to do that, as I think of her less and less.I’m in the last year of high school, 18yo, the relationship lasted one and a half years.
