Janedoe3957

@patricia12 First, thanks for getting back to me, it’s nice to hear someone finally took the time to read that. So this wedge…when we first broke up we were living together and we were kind of distant for a month and a half. She had been staying at one of her girlfriend’s house as we were on the ‘break’. One night I decide to finally go out with some buds, lo and behold there she is dressed to kill with another guy and some extras. Obviously I was pissed, but I felt like going to jail over it was a little much so I made like a tree and got the hell out of there. Now this was the initial moment I realized I needed to think, and an old old friend of mine had just recently reached out to me. Granted it was another girl, but there was nothing between me and this girl and there still isn’t, I just needed a ‘woman’s touch’ on this situation. My girl however, doesn’t like this girl, but I really didn’t have anybody else to talk to and I did it anyways. We did the whole -do you really want to get back with her bit- and I went out trying to find that answer. One of the things I did was go on the infamous friends date with another old friend who also happened to be a girl. The girl however started telling all of her friends that we had been dating, my girl eventually catches wind, doesn’t believe my word over theirs because I mean do I need to explain women? The fact is though, I wasn’t real with her about what was going on in the first place so that’s kind of my fault, and I’m trying to start fresh but danggit is that tough. Anyways, we’ve been talking through this whole ordeal but recently we were going to meet up at my place, I was gonna cook dinner for her and she kind of blew me off. The emotions that I felt made me realize that I was still obsessing over it thus, initiating the NC. It’s been five days now since we haven’t talked and she just messaged me, which is a good sign because she’s been going out of her way to check on what I’m up to lately. I still haven’t told her what’s going on but it seems to be working, so after all of this, still think I should tell her?