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So 3 days after seeing my snapchat story my ex bf messaged me on snapchat asking if I deleted him? I reply with “why? Did you try contacting me here on snapchat?” And he replied with yes. He ended up texting me that same day and we have been sort of texting eachother back. He’s been in Hawaii with his family for vacation and he seems to find time to text me here and there. All text messages are friendly. Neither one of us brought up the break up or the ultimatum. Not sure if he’s just being nice so that he can keep me as a friend or this is something better? Any thoughts guys? Gals? Would be much appreciated. Thank you ?
Hi!
He hasn’t said anything since the ultimatum. I deleted him off on all my social media. But on Saturday I went to this pool part and decided to have my snapxhat be public. I didn’t think that all the people I unfriended in snapchat including him would still be able to see my videos. He saw some if not all my snapxhat story for 2 days. And he stopped watching it yesterday. I’m not sure if it means anything but u til now I have not heard from him. It’s been almost 2 weeks since The ultimatum and still nothing. I’m starting to miss him again but I don’t want to be the first one to crack. Also Vegas is in 3 weeks and idk if I’m going anymore.
Hi stefanos!
Thank you!!! We’re both 25 yrs of age and he works at men’s ware house based on commission so obviously not all the time there’s business.
As to answer your question what led the break up. He said that we just argued too much. this is the second time we broke up. In December last year we broke up because I found out he was still talking to the girl he used to see but she’s all the way in San Diego and we’re here in the bay. He said they’re just friends and all that but I told him that he didn’t have to hide. Everyday I would ask if there was anything I needed to know and he would say no. That was mutal break up because if hurt me a lot. I told him he needs to rebuild the trust. But then we got back together in January and everything was perfect until my mom passed in March. He was very supportive and was there with me every step of the way. We were still good until April. I got needy, clingy, and just plain cray apparently and he said that we just argued a lot and towards mid April that’s when he would ignore me after our arguments. I remember the longest he ignored me was a week. One of the days during our break up I picked up my stuff from his place. We talked like normal and he still looked at me the same way. This was like 3 weeks ago. When I said I love him and miss him. He said the same thing. That was the second time we said he loved me. The first was when we argued and I asked him how he really felt. He said I love you our of anger. Idk if I messed up giving this ultimatum. I need some other perspective. Thank you
