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You’re probably right. I have made things worse by messaging and I know that now. But there’s no need to be out of order and call me a stalker as I’m already feeling low enough. All I can do now is plan for when I do see her next week. But I’m literally restless at the moment
I think if I did that. She wouldn’t meet me at all as I had to really persuade her. I don’t think no matter how long I give her will do anything. We need to talk now and I personally need to tell her exactly how I’m feeling and explain what’s gone wrong without coming across as needy
Unfortunately I messaged today and well… it didn’t go well. Again she just told me to focus on myself and for her to focus on herself. I jumped to conclusions and said do you want me to just give up then and she said yes. Which made my heart sink. She’s gone from being absolutely lovely to just cold. I reiterated the fact that she wants me in her life and she said yes as I friend. I’ve then said I need to see her to talk and after some persuading she’s agreed to at some point next week. But said if I even try and persuade her to start thins again she’s leaving and going home
@patricia12 so today she was pulling out from work in her car when I was driving by. Totally by coincidence. She was struggling to get out and could see she’s been there for a while. So I stoped and held up the whole traffic so she could get out. She laughed put her hand up to me and gave me the biggest smile. Am I still right to wait or should I message now about it
And sorry I forgot to mention. She’s gone from wanting a relationship with me. To now since we’ve argued not wanting anything at the moment due to me being how I am and creating stress. But I’m not sure if she’s just saying this. But I will continue with NC and give her space and time. Thanks
Thanks for replying. Another worry of mine is that the longer I leave it the more she may drift away. I understand that NC right now is my only option as if I do constantly message her she will block me which is the last thing I want. And I’m also very worried that when I do message her she won’t meet up with me or even want to speak to me and just will be over me. So when I do message I don’t want to go to heavy to quickly. As it will potentially push her away. Hence why I’m thinking of saying to her that I recognised I was being to much after she asked for some time to think and that I was being like my old self
