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Well I’m doing ok with NC but I’m getting so many doubts. She’s with someone else instead of me so given the choice she’d rather be with him. So what am I doing?! Just waiting for nothing?! Or at best as 2nd choice?
🙁Yep, that sounds very familiar. We used to openly look on WhatsApp to see when we were last on, try and catch each other at the same time. ‘Check in’ first thing and last thing every day. I’ve managed to completely stop that.
Still checking their Instagrams though! 🙁
It’s hard. Social media is no help.
Thanks for the words of encouragement. So, really? Not even looking at their Instagram profiles? I’ve been doing that a lot.
That’s even tougher! Didn’t realise that’s Contact.
Ok. Maybe that was
obvious. I guess I haven’t started yet then. I start now.
You’re doing well 🙂Honestly, with the final marriage split and missing the kids, I needed her more than ever. And now she’s gone too! I realise this is probably what I deserve but I’ve never felt more lost.
Thanks for the replies. Nope the marriage is over, it has been for a long time but was a slow disintegration. Sorry, I wasn’t clear.
It’s the woman I’ve been avoiding during the marriage break up I want. It was the right thing to do at the time, and she waited and waited. I took too long I guess. She started seeing someone else and although says she says she still loves me, doesn’t feel it’s right to leave him for me. And she’s kinda happy with how her life is and given I’m post break up, probably obviously an emotional mess!
I haven’t seen her, I’ve told her how strongly I feel and that I’ll wait for he, try & win her back. That I don’t want anyone else. And she’s being friendly but ‘can’t promise anything, ‘who knows what will happen’ kinda thing.
Maybe it’s a bit of a test, not sure.Gamecoder I’m sure you’re right, thanks for the encouragement. I should really lie low. Naturally I’m obsessed with her social media (and her new BF’s) so it is really hard. Does NC also mean stop that too?! 🙂 We really did have such a strong bond for years (over 5!) so I really hope it’s a temporary thing. Good luck with yours, another day notched up?
