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I received the picture from a friend she was basically caught out eating with that guy. She even lied about it also when I asked her what she did that day and she said she worked.
Yes the father knew but he was a control freak so it put a strain on our relationship. Round trip was about 50miles a day going and coming. If we were to go on a date she would have to be back within like 2hrs so it was better to lie.
No I don’t have control issues I was just hurt by what had happened at the time it was a stupid decision.
Idk if im an option or if they are just not serious she tells me they arnt having sex or anything like that and I find it weird if I were to call her late at night we can stay up together. Why wouldn’t they be talking on the phone late at night is what confuses me also. So I messed up last night because I had heard something and I faced timed her about it and well again we fell asleep with the video on at about 6am which also has me confused how we can just do that. Im gonna go back into no contact or should I try to get her to meet up with me again?
Probably the main arguments were that I was constantly having to live a lie because her dad is crazy and has a tracker in her car mind you shes 22. So I would have to drive to another city to pick her up while she was “working” in order for us to see each other and she wanted me to see her almost every day. The amount of gas and miles I put in my truck was crazy and expensive. Also we were saving up because we were both on board to get married next year and well I went out and bought a Jet ski that she new I was going to purchase before but I didn’t tell her that I was gonna buy it when I went to go see them.It was getting paid by something I had on the side it had no effect on me or the money I have saved for the wedding. But every time we were arguing she was holding a lot in till one day she litterly exploded on me for keeping things in.
Although I did break up with her she didn’t want to get back together when I asked because she was already planning on breaking up with me. I basically did her the favor by doing it so she wouldn’t have to.
So when I broke up with her I basically picked her up and let her have it when I broke up with her and made her in front of me delete basically any evidence of our relationship (pic & videos). When I did it i was pretty much way past the point of no return. She is a very emotional person so I know that it hurt her alot when I did it and I completely regret doing it.
She showed me later on however she was able to retrieve everything from her computer so that felt good to see all those memories again.
Im not the one that turns to sex its her because she still doesn’t want to get back together. This last time she initiated contact but like I said she is very cold through text and when we are together she goes back to being herself in love with me which completely throws me off. The guy shes dating doesn’t know we have been meeting or that she still talks to me so that also throws me off as to why he doesn’t know or hasn’t found out. They should be near 2 months dating but they are not official or anything and there dates are mainly going clubing and drinking. Which was something we never did in our relationship because it was not her thing.
Yes it was a happy one up until the last couple months when we were having arguments and we couldn’t talk to each other. I broke up with her and then tried to just get back with her and work things out the next day but I later learned that she was planning on breaking up with me anyways because of how things were going and she just couldn’t do it. She didn’t give me anything that I need to work on or advice. She has been seeing the guy she had meet up to eat tho through this whole month we have been broken up she did say she likes him as well. She tells me she loves me but it just doesn’t feel the same she was very cold through text but in person she is very different.
