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@patricia12 Thanks, me too.
Yeah pretty much. Only it’s not his place, it’s their “workplaces overnight apartment” or something. (For when people work late and can’t get home or so. And last time I heard there’s another person living there as well.)
It was the best I could do for the no contact period. Since it’s legally our apartment I can’t actually kick her out and just told her that I thought that was for the best.Had to break no contact today, she texted earlier saying she’s coming over tomorrow to pick up some things and was wondering when I’m out of the apartment. No real conversation though, I just replied.
I’m looking for another place to live, but so far no luck.
(It’s really hard getting a place here, was really lucky with this one.)Still can’t see what was/went wrong, it bothers me. I’ll get it eventually I guess.
Something I’ve been thinking about; A year ago she gave me this jar filled with “100 notes of reasons why she loves me”. I’ve only been opening them when I’ve missed her a lot when she’s been out of town or so, so I got a bunch left.
Reading them would probably break me for awhile, but it’s also a goldmine if you get what I mean?Well I got home last week, told her when I was almost there over text. She wasn’t home that night but got home after work the day after. Told her I wanted to be alone and she agreed, talked for a bit and everything went very smoothly but maybe a bit too friendly. So now she’s basically living with the guy she cheated on me with (Or the “premature-rebound” as I like to call him.)
It feels alright, pretty sure he’s a typical douchebag and won’t like living together for the longrun and break it off. But it’s hard not to think that maybe I’ve just made it easier for them, like maybe they’ll love living together and live happily ever after. Oh well worrying just makes it worse.
I’m making great changes in my personal life, I work out everyday and eat really healthy. Sleep like a baby at night. Feels great.
Next step is quit smoking.
Found out my ex is doing the pretty much the opposite (When we talked about alone time/no contact.) which at least shows that she isn’t that happy. I take that as a small win!
