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I think this is great 🙂 everything seems to be looking in the right direction. You’re doing everything right as to taking it slowly and easing your way up. I’m super excited for you and can’t wait to hear more good news 🙂
I’m glad you stuck through with it and remained positive. I hope everything works in your favor and you get your relationship back. Keep me posted. I’d like to hear a happy ending.
I just don’t see her responding negatively at all since it was left off with love between the two of you and a possible future. If you an hold off for another 2 weeks, than do that. But if you wanted just send a text saying hey, than I don’t see any harm in it. It’s completely up to you though.
Sorry for the late reply. I know how hard and how discouraging everything can be and feel when you have a breakup… I don’t think anyone can actually triply prepare for the worst. This is something I’ve been asking myself too and I honestly really don’t know how I would deal with it. You can only take one day at a time… Waiting is the hard part in all of this because you don’t know what they’re thinking and you’re missing them but not knowing if they’re missing you. I understand how you feel… Just give it some time and see what happens. If you both loved each other, he will miss you too. It’s unavoidable.
I agree with Patricia12. You definately don’t want to go back to being just friends because he was comfortable there with you before and if you want him as more than a friend, don’t let him feel that comfort again. He needs to miss your relationship as well as your friendship. It’s easy to tell someone what to do and not to do, so I won’t tell you that. Whenever you have the urge to text or call, just look at the bigger picture. You’re doing this for another chance at a relationship with this person. Use that as your motivation for you to resist calling or texting him… I know it’s hard and your heart hurts when all you want to do is pour yourself out to the other person in hopes they just give you another chance. It’ll only hurt you more becasue they will never want to talked into doing something. They want to be the ones that pursue and go after it on their terms. It’s a man ego/pride thing… I feel for you and I hope you get your friendship/relationship back with him 🙂
Oh I completely understand. Think about my situation, he broke up with me and is putting me through hell, but he’s just now rethinking things. It’s backwards. That’s just the way some people’s minds work. Just give her a little time. She will come around.
Yeah, try as hard as you can not to make that first move. If she doesn’t say anything in the next 2-3 weeks, reach out to her. Im sure that she will though.
Thank you… I have a feeling that you will find happiness together again. Just believe it.
Yeah, I really do think so. It’s hard to let go of someone you love, especially if the other person loves you too. Yeah, just stick to the no contact for a while and see how she responds… She’s only thinking like this because she thinks it will be easier with school and her focus on that. That’s not reality though. A person can’t just put aside their feelings so simply… I really do wish you luck, but I don’t think you’ll need much :)… Being a guy, could I get your input on my situation? Could you read my post? I really need a guy’s opinion.
Hi,
I’m sorry you are going through a difficult time. I’m in no place myself to tell anyone how to fix their problems but at least I can give you my input. Sounds like you two are very much so in love and both of you want a future. Something you have to tell yourself is that the heart always wins. The brain can tell it to act a certain way but it is only temporary. You are doing the right thing by giving her some space. During this time she will realize that if you are her soulmate, she will fight for the relationship more. At the same token, you have to be willing to fight harder for the relationship as well. Seeing that you said that you two could’ve communicates better, make that the number one thing you fix right then and there. I don’t have any doubts that she will regret the break up. She just needs some time to realize that. The heart always prevails. She loves you and distance won’t keep you two apart, especially if she sees herself with you in the long run. Keep faith in the fact that no love was lost which means a high high chance of a rekindled relationship. Don’t lose hope on her, just give her some time to see that life without you is worse than how it was before. She will, trust me. Stay strong and positive, I see you both together again in the very near future 🙂
