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  • in reply to: Trust no contact! #107555
    Dowai99
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    That’s great news Sallys, a fantastic start!

    I don’t have high hopes on my ex coming back this time, he has in the past but he seems pretty adamant and I’ve not heard from him in a while. Who knows what the future holds though, I’m going to start dating and see what happens.

    I have a lot of self improvement to do at the moment and I’m loving putting my energy into myself. Whether he sees it or not (it’s unlikely he will) I’m really looking forward to seeing what my future holds.

    in reply to: Broke NC after 18 days #107554
    Dowai99
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    Thanks so much. That’s what I thought to be honest. I think it’s over, and I’ve been acting as if it is (apart from that one day, obviously).

    I’ve been really working on self improvement recently, a lot has been happening and it has been going really well. I feel like I have myself back, which is really fantastic.

    It’s just that little thing in the back of my head that keeps ticking over and won’t forget him (I think it’ll forget with time!) And unfortunately when I have a bad mental health day, it’s where my focus lies.

    Maybe he will come back in a few years. If he does, I’ll consider a new relationship as if it was a new person. For now I’m looking forward to dating some new people. I’ve found some blind dating events that look so exciting!

    Thanks so much for your comment. 🙂

    in reply to: Trust no contact! #106197
    Dowai99
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    Thanks Sallys. I’m not feeling too great right now but I’m looking forward to feeling like a strong, independent woman and having my life back. Whether he’s in it or not, it’s his loss because I had damn good intentions!

    Also: My now-ex-again came back after NC too. Just at the point where I was starting to move on. I actually ignored his messages at first because I wasn’t interested – NC is magical and the best thing you can do!

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