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Hey OLDIES! Just wandered here. Idk why but i felt like asking how is everyone? still very thankful for the times we were there for each other during our hardest moments.i chersih it. I hope we are all in a good place. If anyone remembers me that is. I remember steve and az. I actually got back with my ex after a couple of yrs of break up. Now we are dating again for more than 2yrs and i think we are stronger now as a couple. I hope everyone ended up happy in the end. I know thay not everyone got their ex back but hey im sure by now you know that it is super OK!! Cheers guys!
I’m not judging. I mean. Doing things to forget and doing things to improve ourselves are different right?
We are all great people in our own respective ways. We dont have to prove our exes anything. We dont need to date someone more beautiful in order to show them that we won the breakup. We dont have to fear rejection. Not everybody will like us. And i think accepting it also boosts our confidence. We are all approaching 1 year of being single. I hope everyone is moving on smoothly. I hope we all find the love we deaerve soon. 🙂Hi guys. Its my bday today. And when i wake up. Guess what. My ex messaged me and greeted me. Im kinda felt mixed emotions but i know she greeted me just because. It doesnt mean anything more. She just shoes that she is okay now and hoping that i am too. I understood now and handles it good.
Steve, you still feel attached because she is your lasr girlfiend. Remember when we talked about that if you see a girl or even when sex comes up your mind and romantic things. Its the ex that we think of because she was the last girl in our lives that we shared those things with. Thats why we concluded that we can never really move on while we dont have someone new yet. And just a piece of advice. Check yourself steve. Ask yourself. Are you doing those things to forget her? Or are you doing it for yourself? There is a nlbig difference. If you are doing it to still forget her. Then there is a chance that you will still remember her because she is stull the core of your actions. Do you get me here buddy? Anyway youve come a long way now. Dont stress out the little things you are a better man now. Believe that idea. 🙂
Hi guys! Been reqding your stories and im happy that some of us are still hanging around here. I want to share my own feelings right now. Here goes. Everytime i like a girl. I always always compare them to my ex. In a lot of ways. If shes not better in a major way then i easily get turned off. Yes i am aware that everyone is different and unique. But i guess just so fixiated to this “upgrade” thing. That your next should be better than your ex. And i cant control it guys i just cant help but compare. Am i not over my ex yet??? Its gonna be our break up anniversary on march 16 already. Cant even believe its been a year now what a ride. Damn hell of a roller coaster. But im grateful that the hurt os over now. I dont want to go through the same hell again ever. Its like your dying every minute when you get your heart broken. Thanks for being there fore guys. Too bad i cant thank the other oldies coz theyre not active anymore but i havent forgotten everyone. I still rember zack way back. Poor guy. I hope hes doing now. And all of you guys. 🙂
Guys, you know what. I see a pattern here. All of us are having a hard time dating another girl. Yeah we meet good women and possible partners but somehow something is causing it not to materialize. Are we still unstable? Is it still about the ex? Is it about the confidence? Or should we just accept that we are not yet ready. It happens to all us guys here.
GUYS! Something changed in me!! I was browsing my desktop then i found a folderr named “Zbgheer” it was weird so i opened it. To my surprise it was pictures of my ex and me. I totally forgot about this folder. The funny and good thing i suppose is that i think im seeing her on a different light. I dont think she is that beautiful anymore. Idk why but this is how i see her and how i feel. Its a good sign i guess. I miss our days together but im not i happily accepted the fact that its over and its just memories now. GUYS I’M FINE!!! I MADE IT!!!! Hahahaha! Thank you everyone. 🙂
Loreley,
You know, we go through the process of getting okay and stable. So we are prepared for things like encountering thing or places that reminds us of our ex. Its tough and hard but its like the final test. It will make you feel hurt again. But this is where you will knownif you ave truly moved on. Face the airport honey, i knownyou are neevous and all sorts of memories are in your mind as of now but trust me if you overcome this mit will feel great from the inside. Knowing that you have overcome it. Its more like of fear as of now. Good luck!HAPPY NEW YEAR GUYS! thank you for being a part of my 2014! Thank you for being there for met during this bad year. My break up last march was terrible and brought me to my knees but you guys gave me the support that i needed. You will forever be cherished. Now ik about to bury the pain and the hurt along with 2014 as it passes. 2015 is a great opportunity to start fresh. I promise i will never ever chase love again for it should be given freely and something that isnt forced. And that i should love myself more. Cheers guys! To 2015! Leave the past behinf. To the future!
Rihanna,
Do you have any social media account? I’ll try to give you some form of entertainment or acitivities. Clearly you lack options of what to do in your place. Im not quite sure yet but i have an aunt in australia. I think its melbourne and im not sure yet but i think we’re gonna go visit her this summer. Are you near there? 🙂Guys,
All of you. All of what youre going through. My advice is meet new people and make new friends. Honestly it helps a loooot! Thats what i did. Making new friends and having fun with them. Eventually it will stem out. your new friend will introduce you to hi/her friends. It will make your social circle better and the potential of new partner is higher. You will set up activities and trips together. Its like a brand new start. Brand new happiness. It replaces the old bitter me ories of new happy ones. Go to places where you can meet new people. Enroll in some classes just so. There are a lot of people you can meet.Steve, man ive been through that. Break up changes your life big time. You just got to stand up man up. And move forward with your life. Dont worry man. I didnt had sex for 9mos before i got laid that i didnt enjoy. Its okay dude its normal. Meet new people build new circles. It helps a lot. 🙂
Went on out of town trips. Had adventures and fun. Im doing things that i havent done before. Sometimes i thibk i should or i couldve done tvis with my ex but it does not matter coz its over now. Ive got a crush btw. I met her once. Shes a friend if my friend. Havent seen her again yet but i like her. But im bot keeping my hopes up. I dont want to be disappointed you know. Its better to play safe for know that to gamble and risk it all. Dont want to be in that emotional roller coaster again ya know. 🙂
Does greeting merry christmas not allowed between simple friends? Maybe he just greeted you plainly nothing more. I greet women friends even those who im not really close with. Just keep on moving on. Youre
Being paranoud. Youre losing your mind over thos guy. Wanna go through the same ordeal again? Be strong rihanna. Get a hold of yourself.Rihanna,
Maybe the text has no deeper meaning. Take it easy you are over analyzing things. Its making you sad see?Az,
Wow. Potential partners do come to you easily dont they? Ik sorry about what happened between you ans Julian. But i think its for the best. Now the new guy, i think you should take it slow. Get a break from relationships and intimacy. Like try to breathe first. It may help you. Just always do what makes you happy ok?
So tell me. How did you become emotionally satiable? What did you do? Maybe i cna try it and help me too. 🙂Az,
Hi az! I missed you too. I also started thinking about you since yesterday because everyone has been active lately and not seeing you in action hahaha! I hope youre doing great! Share new stories if you have the time and if you feel like it. You know that we are here to listen. 🙂
