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Sounds harsh but I guess that’s the same thing she did to me for an entire year, I’ll give it a try, but if I break I won’t go into specifics I’ll just tell her that I need space, period. Thanks again you’re so right I am over thinking it.
Thanks for your post, I’m waiting for her to text me back when she does I’ll let her know that I need some space and not to contact me and then I’ll start the No Contact, I didn’t really tell her to leave the guy or move but she asked me how she can get me back I told her she has to show me that I can trust you in the future and her still being in a relationship is not showing me that, so of course if she doesn’t make the changes in the future I don’t see a future for us.
Plus she dropped a big one on me she told me that she wants to have children with me and a family with me, man this just compounds the situation, gosh.As a side note her and I have been together since 2000 and lived together on 3 separate occasions and the last was the longest 4+ years before she stopped talking to me for a year. She told me that the guy just gave her the ring just 2 months ago, but that she has no intention of marrying him. She says that she did not plan to live there that long and that she just got caught up in that situation, I told her I could not start up with her she is not singke,and then she said that if she has to move out to a room and live alone she would do it to get me back in the future. She sounds sincere but I have no way of knowing if she will really follow through with it, so I am thinking about doing NC for about a month to two months so that way perhaps she does follow through and if that’s the case and possibly just possibly I might have a feeling to truly reconcile with her. What do you think it sounds crazy, but I guess the only two options I have is to do NC and move on or do the NC and wait to see if she changes.
Clearly he is confused and perhaps doesn’t know how to reconcile with you. he seems to be a little bit selfish and only thinks about his feelings so if you do the NC it should help him realize that he was being inconsiderate of you so give it time do the NC for 30 days and he should be trying to contact you after that and try responding and see what is on his mind, but if you’re stubborn you never know.
