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How long is the distance? Not within driving range?

It sounds like she generally has a possitive attitude towards you. I think you have a shot. But keep in mind, she might also just want you as a backup just in case of a lonely night in the future.

That is also a possibility yes… Only one way to find out. Invite her for a friendly cup of coffee and catch up. I am sure you can read a lot more from her body language ect. when you talk to her in person. Then you will know a lot better how she feels. You could end up back together, or you could get hurt… No one knows…
But take it from me: She is open to the idea!
I have had 3 ex girlfriends, and they ALL came back and it all started with meeting over a cup of coffee just to catch up. Coffee turn into a movie night and so on.
And they all started like this… And I was always certain they only did it out of guilt or because they wanted to be “just friends”… And every time I was wrong…

Ofcause I shouldnt get your hopes up. Afterall I could be wrong.
But women dont go out for coffee with ex´s without a reason or to “catch up”. There is always a reason for women to keep their ex in their lives…

i know how you feel.
Right after the break up my ex also did a lot of things that did not make any sense, and complete opposite of what she said. But now (6 months later) she is becoming normal again, and the things that happend straigth afte the break up no longer seem to matter…
We do many stupid things and things that doesn´t make any sense in siturations like this. Try not to read to much into it. There can be a ton of different reasons for it, or there might not even be a reason at all. Perhaps it is to ease his own pain, perhaps some friends has ordered him to do it and tell him it will make him feel better, perhaps he wants to explore his options, cold feet, he needs an ego boost, he thinks the single life is very glamorous (it usually isnt), you may have hurt him at some point and he wants to hurt you back, he wanted to see if you were on the site ect…
You get my point….
There could be many reasons, but there is no way for any of us can know for sure. He might not even know himself….

Take the high road my friend. Dont let him know this gets to you.
After some time when the break up is no longer fresh things will change, and he will become more “normal”

Hope this makes sense…. 🙂

I know how you feel. Sometimes I wish my ex was hurting like hell. Not because I hate her or anything, but because it would make me feel like I mattered and that she did have some feelings for me.
We need our ego boost every now and then.

Let me tell you this:
What you are hopeing for MIGHT be true. She may lay sleepless every nigth thinking of you. But there is a chance it is only temporary. When she gets her ego boost from you she could give you a cold shoulder again like my ex did, and you will end up more hurt then before. Like I did…

So for your own best: Accept that you will never know for sure. Find some other way to get an ego boost, be happy, improve yourself and live your life 🙂
If what you are thinking is true, she will come to you sooner or later when she see this new amazing person.

Looking back, how would you describe your relationship?? Good an healthy, or abusive and bad?

I know how you feel mate. I had the same experience with my ex:

After 2 months of NC we bumbed into each other at the gym. I acted happy and upbeat ofcause. After this she started snapchatting me some random stuff, I replied. We had this going for 2-3 days… The snaps quickly became very flirting, and then she became cold as ice. WTF? I thought she wanted me back?

Now 4 months later she is opening up again. She texted me about something random, and she has also started to like some of the things I post on Instagram. Much like you ex is doing.
This time I am trying not to read to much into it, and I advice you to do the same. You will just end up very hurt like I did.
I think it is their way of keeping us in their life, or to get their attention fix…

Some guy on another forum told me: “If she really really wants to reconsile, you will know! There will be no doubt about her intentions. She will not make small hints…. She will be direct!“

Thats great!! 🙂
I know you dont see it, but this is a good thing for you.
One word for you my friend: REBOUND!
These are rebound guys. And they tend to end faster then they begin. Dont you worry. She will have a period now where she goes from rebound to rebound. Each rebound gets her closer to realising how great a relationship you and her had. I know it is hard to do, but try not to worry to much about it. Let her make all the mistakes she wants.

Also:
Many studies shows that if a couple feel the need to constantly show the world how happy they are on social medias, it means that things might now be as wonderfull afterall….