Conner

Hey AlphaGoat, I just wanted to thank you for your words and expressing what you’ve been through.

My girlfriend broke up with me around the beginning of last week, and I’m only now enacting the No Contact rule. Between then and now, I’ve been an emotional wreck and I’ve sent her several long messages that she blatantly told me to stop sending. But today I found Kevin’s 5 Step Plan, and I’ve decided to give it a try. And after reading your story, and how you went through everything I’m experiencing, it does give me hope that I’ll get through this and come out stronger than I was going in.

And I’ll be in a similar situation soon because we both live in Germany, but I may be moving to the US this summer and she may be going to Spain. So soon, I’ll only be able to talk to her via social media, not in person. We’re going to meet once before that (It will be after the No Contact period) and I’m going to say my peace and then simply work towards being her friend again. I’m hoping that things will work out, but no matter what, I just want the best for her and I want her to be happy.