Charmed1

I think your over analyzing the relationship and stick in a sort of envy with him.

He cheated on you, moved in the girl who is providing what you wouldn’t. Let him live his life, let him have the life he wanted do much that he would dishonor you and chest on you for.
Stop with the thoughts of his well you treated him, he didn’t care .

As far as no sex before marriage, giving oral sex is still sex, so when you did this it was natural he wanted more. He found someone who would, you stuck to no penetration, which probably upset him.

This guy has zero respect for you, you need to start healing yourself and find someone who will respect you and your morals.

He moved on, just like my ex, he’s living the life he created, although my ex may be unhappy, that’s what he chose and nothing I can do about it. I don’t have to put my life on hold and be unhappy, I have the freedom to go whatever I want and live- you need to do the same.

It’s been a week no contact for me, I still miss him like crazy, but I’m feeling better, he’s not in my every thought. I deserve better. If he wanted me, he would prove it- he apparently wants the miserable life, more power to him.

Yeah, like you I treated him so well, but apparently they wasn’t good enough.

Like you I was failing at everyday things while he is happy as can be with no consern for my well being- so learn from that, he is living his life while yours has stopped, and he doesn’t care, so start living God you, his world didn’t stop and yours shouldn’t either.

Gain your independence from your parents and you will see what the world had to offer. Go on dates, hang out with friends, live lufe, let the jerk live his life, one day he might see what he threw away, but right now he doesn’t care and you shouldn’t either.

I’m on day two on another no contact- I broke no contact after 5 days, through texting. Found out why he broke up with me- he was cheating, she’s two months pregnant, he moved her in. He says he doesn’t know if he loves her, but feels obligation to her due to the pregnancy, he says he’s happy with her, sometimes it gets bad though.

During the texting he begged me not to leave him, that I have treated the best he had ever been treated. That he misses me & loves me.

I was a mess, I gave him an ultimatum, her or me. He said he didn’t want to hurt anyone, that he loves me so much.

After a week of texting back and forth, me not eating or sleeping and falling in a deep depression, I a decision, I let him go.

I explained I will always love him, but I have come to realize that he already made his decision & I must accept that.

He wrote back,

“I will always love you too babe. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are not good enough. You have done nothing but good on my life. I miss you so much. Everything is so hard. ”

That’s it, I felt relieved walking away, still hurts, but dat two no contact, he still passes through my mind, but I have gotten my appetite back, I have gotten out of bed and starting to live again. I would do anything to have him back, but he made a choice, he cheated and his love for me wasn’t a consideration. I’ve kept the texts, I’ll delete them eventually, I’m just not ready yet.