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I have not contacted her for about 5 days and then she contacted me to get her stuff. She came by and i passed it to her and left. We barely spoke. A day later which is today. She dropped me a text saying goodmorning and hope everything is going well for me. I didnt reply but just wish to know like does it mean anything?
Sorry to confuse you, yes I live with my parents, so does she. It’s normal in my country to be staying with our parents even at this age.
I got into panic mode as there was an accident and my mum was sent to the hospital. I was by her side and was confused and lost as I’ve already lost my father, my mother is the only one I’m left with. I got scared, lost and just needed someone but that someone was just her.
It became a habit to know that she is safely home as when we started off, she always made sure to let me know she is safe. And most of the time I’m always by her side thats why I feel uneasy when she does not let me know.
I’ve been slowly moving into her place since we got together. And time i would be back home. When i’m not with her, those are the times she would not tell me that she is safe.
Long before the break up we have been having problems and she never really voiced out what was wrong while I tried for at least tell her but she never ever gets it. For a whole 4-5 months all she ever says is she has not been happy. We tried to talk things out and I did what she said that I’ve stopped doing.
I want to be able to pass a day with out having to think of her. Everything reminds me of her now and the break up really left a big scar. I feel so much anger right now and also realise how unimportant I am to her already. As something had happen I went into panic mode and texted her because i really needed her by my side for support even as a friends. She didn’t bother.
I’m really depressed already and I pass each day thinking about us. I really want to stop. I’m so metally drained out and hurt….
The way i handled the break up. It was all too sudden for me and it really made me so lost at that moment. I do agree to that. And the first few days i really wanted to end my pain. In the end after hearing what she has scolded me i pulled myself together and i found this page.
I don’t know if doing NCR will make her pull herself away because she really looks fine but i don’t know whats really going on in her mind. I’m just scared during this period someone starts trying to get her heart.
She is 25 and I’m 20. We have an age gap of 5 years. She thinks I have a childish mindset. But she always told me that she would never get back with her ex an that it is for sure impossible. During those times, she started changing when her ex had came back from overseas and got back into contact. I’m too confuse at that point and it made me do so much more lesser as i felt hurt and as time passed, she stopped and finally gave up. I felt so lost as to why suddenly she just wanted to completely break up with me when just a few days before our break up, she told me we had to talk just not at the moment. I even took the time to think about all that I had done wrong or not done enough.
She told me she wanted to choose herself for now and would not like to talk about anything regarding patching up. I managed to pull myself together and somehow found out about this page. Now we are just talking like normal friends and I would try to reply as slow as I can, I would not reply right away as I might look needy and if she didn’t reply, I would not send another text to her.
I’ve done so much and it just seems not enough during the time when we were still together. I just want to find a way to make her attracted to me once again and do it right this time. From my understanding is that right now, she says she still loves me but maybe 5% I would say? I see hope in saving this, so i just want the best advise right now.
