braves91tn

I think no contact is the way to go to be honest. I would let her know you understand and respect her decision and project security and confidence by letting her see what’s its like to actually get what she’s asking for, which whether she realizes it or not is losing you from her life because I don’t see how it could go on long term as as she’s describing. The way I read it she’s unsure, and while she may feel guilty about stringing you along in my opinion that’s exactly what she’s doing by saying she still wants to spend days with you. She wants that part of being with you, she wants the support and the attention but she doesn’t want to be responsible for giving any of it back. I say this not to be mean in any way, I think you have a great shot of getting her back but in order to do that you’re going to have to do the hardest thing which is going no contact and giving yourself space to heal and her time to miss you.