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Dude, we’ve all been there before. It’s why we’re here in the first place. But as easy as it is to say “it gets better”, it really does get better. And the key to that is no contact.
I was in a horrible place mentally 2 weeks ago, but now I feel a lot better about myself. Sign up for the emails, genuinely work on yourself, and make a real effort to get through the week without talking to her. From there, it’s all uphill for all you know. You can do anything.
It’ll take some serious pain to have your epiphany in regards to what kind of man you want to be, and the best way to make that happen. Me personally, I had to resort to some things I’m not proud of. But I feel like I’ve reached a point where my potential as a man is limitless, and you can too.
If you can get to that point while still listening to Kevin’s advice, you’ll be doing yourself a huge favor. Just keep your head up. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.I think you do have a chance. I found myself in a similar situation a bit over a year ago, before meeting the one who brought me here.
People change, it’s inevitable. When you meet someone who believes that people don’t grow/change, that’s a a closed minded person. So who are you now?
If you’re not the same guy who put who put her through hell, and you’re ready to be your best self, be that guy. Be patient. Sooner or later it’ll show.
