bigslick1251

We were together for just over a year. She wouldn’t give me a reason why we broke up but I alluded to the majority of them in my post. She said she came to the realization that we are different people and that as much as there is good things about that the other side of it (career ambition for example) out weigh the pros.
She called me clingy because my choice free time activity would be us spending time together. I don’t think I am clingy but I went through a rough time between jobs earlier this year and I really needed her support. (Not financially) because she is so busy I don’t think she has the tools to be that supportive.

I got complacent not directly tackling all the problems we had. I knew things were messed up for months but we both kept putting off fixing them and addressing them.

The part about not wasting each other’s time was a subject she brought up. Basically, because of her close relationship with her mom they both thought we shouldn’t be together if we didn’t have intentions of being together long term.

I’m confused though. I was trying non contact and the general idea is not to inform the person you’re doing it. I’m assuming the idea is to get them to miss you / crave your attention. I was trying to go a month without talking to her before getting my stuff back.