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So today I sent him a msg to send the rest of my items to me and i dont wish to see him again . Than he starts to say he is very heartbroken and dont wish to be angry anymore, and sad to lose my dog and that he wanted to leave me because he felt that I wasnt happy with him and I am happier now . Could it be he genuinely feels this way . or it’s his way of manipulation?
What makes me very confused was just a week before the big breakup , I wanted to leave the rship as he was very nasty to me , throwing my things in public and shouting at me . And he begged me back for a 2nd chance and promising to change. And suddenly a week later he turns stone cold . am I dealing with a psychopath ?
Thanks for your encouragement patricia12. I met him today but he only brought 1 of my things. (I have alot of stuff over at his place) and just walked off. I tried to ask him for my other stuff and he just got angrier and said alot of stuff like he feels he is not good enough for me (confusing eh) ..Thereafter he drops me a text saying he is sorry to hurt me and asks me to move on and find another man. I am totally confused by his actions .
Wow ! I think it’s good! I would be very happy if my partner asked me back like this. All the best and keep us posted !
I know I should move on . in fact its like a cycle that is repeating itself from the first breakup . his moods are erratic and I cant deal with it . But I am also upset because of the time and memories we had . I felt like even though it’s a breakup I cant understand why he is so nasty to me especially when he is the one who is not willing to work things out.
I accidentally pocket dialled him yesterday. So I asked him if I could have one of my items back . and he said ok and we agreed to meet tomorrow . After I asked him how he was , he was very harsh saying like he dont wish to talk and he hates me and he wasted all his time with me . And he says I dont give him what he wants and says I am self entitled. and ask me to find another man to give me what I want. then today he drops me a sorry for being harsh . i replied a appreciate. and he didnt reply anymore . I’m lost at what to do .
