Dear Tony,
I hear you love her a lot and the history you have together is long. How old are you two? I would advise to not reconcile and take a step back and focus on you. She knows you are there and love her and want a future with her, but from what I read seems confused about what she wants. I know it is a lot heartache dealing with the uncertainty so please take time to focus on your happiness and put yourself first.
If she comes back still wanting a future together, you might still want to but let her show you she really wants to be with you.
Good luck!