Apsara

Actually we are not that young. I am 35 and he is 37 (soon to be 38). We have no children and have never been married, neither of us. He was the one that wanted the long distance relationship for a while, because I was supposed to go on december. I even was hesitant to that but he insisted. I will not contact him now but I dont know what made him change so much. At first he was working in my country and there was no evidence of him leaving (he was here for 3 years), then he lost his job and had to return to his country. So it all changed. That’s why he wanted me to go. If i go I will be there legally cause I am applying for a citizenship there (my great granpa was from the same country and It is my right to have it but never had the will to do the paper work).
So.. i dont know. I don’t really want to date other people. And this site is about “getting back with my ex”. So it is pretty weird for someone to say “go find someone else”. But, I do think he rushed things and is now scared. I will wait a few months if he contacts me, i will not do so first… still not really a helpful advice to “just date around”. I am 35, done that, tired of that.