Andy285

I’d just like to post a quick update. It’s actually been a couple of days since I posted this and things have happened.

Basically I was on my way to work and I received a message from my ex asking if it was okay to come by my house after work one night and pick up a ticket for a different show that we were going to together. I was really hesitant to respond at all. I suppose the fact that contact had been made that wasn’t on my terms really threw me off. Obviously not to be an ass about it I agreed for her to come over later in the week.

A brief conversation followed in which she explained that she wanted some other things back too, which again is understandable as she’s looking to be moving out into a place by herself soon. She was very forthcoming with this information to me despite me only giving basic responses.

She’s basically told me she’s going ahead and living the future that we both had planned but she’s doing it alone. I told her that I was happy for her. Obviously this has caused a lot of pain though.

This is all literally within a month of us breaking up and about three weeks into no contact and everything seems to have moved so quickly. She was always in a better position herself to be able to do this but it feels like it’s just some kind of attempt to move on quickly. Considering the fact she’ll soon be going to University too whilst also having to pay for the house, it just seems really rushed and badly thought out.

I still feel like I’m trying to reorganise my life and do things properly whilst she’s doing all of this stuff that we’d planned to do together.

I was considering asking when I see her if she actually wanted to still come to this show with me. But I’m not even sure what to talk about when I see her.

Is this sort of behaviour typical of a rebound as well as the fact she’s already dating another guy she only met a week after we split up?

Help would be much appreciated.