Alicia1701

Thank you Patricia. I’m still staying with my friend and tomorrow I’m seeing my ex for dinner. He texted me yesterday when I was at work to tell me that he can tell my dog is missing me a lot (he uses that a lot as an excuse to just text me i guess).

Then we called because there has been some things happening in our neighborhood and we were worried about it. So when we called I only talked about those things but then he went on to tell me he saw a picture i posted on Instagram of my progress with building my booty (I know, lol but I have been trying to get better with my body) and he told me he was so proud and that when he saw one trainer reposted it, he looked through his story and said my butt looked the best. I was shocked, I wasn’t saying anything and he kept going. After he finished I thanked him and said I was proud of myself too (I tried to be as confident as possible, considering that in our relationship I used to be so insecure and deny all his compliments which I know made him mad)

Then he asked me about my first appointment with my therapist and I told him it was really good and that I learned things about myself and that I will be working on fixing them. He was really happy to hear that and wanted to know more but I said I would tell him a little more when we meet for lunch.

Then he asked me where we were going on Saturday but I said it was just something casual and that I wanted to keep it as a surprise if that’s okay. He said that he hopes it’s not the place we had our first date because it’d be so corny! So we started laughing. (it’s not the same place). Then after we hung up he texted me ‘you are corny though, in the best way possible’ ‘have a good night and be safe,okay?’. In the morning (which is now when I’m typing this) he sent me a picture of a toy he was getting for our dog.

I don’t know how to feel about this. Especially about showering me with compliments and then the message about me being corny. I just don’t want to be led on.