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March 21, 2015 at 8:03 pm #37438
shelden21
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I’m losing hope! I haven’t talked to her today and she texts me and goes “I’m good on you” “ignore me all day”
March 22, 2015 at 8:45 am #37473
shelden21
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I miss her so freaking much!
March 22, 2015 at 12:43 pm #37506
shelden21
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I didn’t talk to her yesterday and she was like “I’m good on you” “ignore me all day”
March 22, 2015 at 4:39 pm #37544
shelden21
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I’ve decided I’m gonna go no contact
March 22, 2015 at 4:48 pm #37546
Gingerone
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Good on you, be strong don’t give in to her
March 22, 2015 at 7:48 pm #37570
shelden21
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I’m not going to
March 23, 2015 at 10:58 pm #37739
shelden21
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Well guys I think I’m done! She went back to that same guy she was talking to the last time and of course I had to find out on my own and she wouldn’t tell me! Idk what to do now guys..
March 24, 2015 at 1:40 pm #37836
shelden21
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Any advice?
March 24, 2015 at 11:20 pm #37887
shelden21
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Now I find out she’s with this other guy everyday and he “makes her happy and treats her like a queen” what do I do now? I feel so hurt and lost:/ she still tells me she loves me more than anything and says she still cares for me
March 26, 2015 at 3:01 pm #38174
CreeD
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No contact
No contact
No contact

Let her enjoy this guy for a little while. Right now she seems so happy and so does he, because they are in the honeymoon phase of their relationship. Sooner or later she will get tired of him and start to wonder if she made the right choice. She will look at you, and she will compare the 2 of you.
3 thing could happen after that:

a) She will see that you haven’t changed at all, in fact you are a bigger looser then ever and she stays with him
b) She see how much you have changed and is impressed, you are happier then ever and living you life to the fullest. You are a bit mysterious in her eyes now and becomes so interrested that she comes back to you
c) she realises that both of you are losers and finds a third guy. Both you guys could then spend the next 6 months crying together.

Wich option do you prefer? I know what I would go for.
March 26, 2015 at 3:20 pm #38185
shelden21
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Option b forsure and I am doing no contact now!
March 26, 2015 at 3:22 pm #38187
CreeD
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What are you doing to improve yourself?
March 26, 2015 at 3:29 pm #38191
shelden21
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Well to show more affection is a really easy task and I’ve been listening to this guy names Michael Griswold! And I used to text her and go off when I heard about her and her new boy but now I just lay low because I know she wants to see me react and I’m not going to you know? But I’ve been going to the gym and working out and hanging out with my friends and becoming a better man and just being a gentleman
March 26, 2015 at 3:55 pm #38193
CreeD
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Sounds like you are doing ok. Try making a plan for like 2 weeks. You have to do at least one thing every day that can help you improve as a person, and one thing that will make you look interrresting 🙂
March 26, 2015 at 4:17 pm #38196
shelden21
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Sounds pretty good! Like what do you mean by making a plan though?
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