Boards No Contact Rule What if ex googles me and finds out…

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    Martin
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    Hey everyone!

    Last saturday I signed up on an online dating website. The problem is my full name is rather unique and if I my name is googled searched it comes. What if my ex searches for my name and finds out I am registered there…will this put her off?

    A few years ago one of my friends made a fake account in my name on badoo.com and my ex took it really seriously! She still thinks it was me who made that account.

    No contact day 13.

    Any thoughts?

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    NyanCat
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    My friend did the same thing when I told her about the feelings I felt about my ex when we broke up… I doubt he cares. (My name is also easily googe-able too, so…)

    I hardly think this would ever be the case. It’s why I decided to go with strange anime/weaboo names. My tip for you is to usually do the first initial and last. For example M. Hartmann

    I wouldn’t pay any mind to it. Keep up your NC and if she does mention that you entered a relationship during this time, all you have to do is to be honest. Don’t sugar coat it.

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    Nell
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    I wouldn’t worry about it. This is your time to focus on you.

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