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Hello to everyone again…well my ex visited two friends in their hometown, and he said to his profile, “I came for meeiting girls, but I am late”… I read his friend’s comment that we forget the girl….
Ok…maybe it is just a joke, but he knew that I will see it, he knew that I will be jealous by reading that he went somewhere to meet girls, also, it is the first time that he is writing something like this on social media, neither with me neither with his ex girlfriend had wrote something like this, I mean he was keeping all the time his relationships secret because of personal thoughts…
So now what??? I didn’t wrote him something, my last message was before days and i was telling him that i love you, i don’t know why you don’t want to speak to me, I am jelaous by thinking you with other girl, but ok, we broke up, but still I am thinking of you…
So now what??? why he uploaded this???he knew that I am gonna be sad because of his post..and I became sad while he is out with friends and having a great time…
Ok, time will show me what it is going on but do you think that he did it for me???
His behavior is liking…hating me?? I don’t know…he broke up with me, and was a good breking up no bad words, he missed me..and now this??? and while he is in another city he is on social media, i mean ok, you go a trip to visit friends and you are sticking on social media, ?? It does not make sense on my eyes..really…ok, he is searching for other girl, and he is writing this on social media, it is the first time he is doing this..
Can you explain me why he is doing this???and if his behavior means something???
Hey Sky…I don’t know why he did that….and to be honest, it likely has absolutely nothing to do with you, even though you are obviously hurt by it. Since you and he are broken up…he is allowed to do and say whatever he likes on his social media page. I know that stinks, but it is the truth. I think you need to unfriend him for a while….you are so focused on what he is doing and saying that you aren’t able to focus on you and what you need to do to move forward. It is also keeping you a bit stuck. If unfriending him is too scary….then you need to stop looking at his page.
You are worthy to be loved by someone who wants to be in a relationship with you….right this moment, that is not your ex.
@KR hello KR and thank you one more time for your advice!!!Well in my last message before days before he to upload whatever I wrote, I was telling him, it is hurting me thinking of you with other womens,.. In the other hand, even if in my language his post is for laughing I mean both of girls and boys we can tell it, and I suppose they are many people who are in relationship by meeting someone who is friend of a friend, or like in old times when a man was with a woman without love and the woman was a girl who was the favorite of the mother of the man and his son and girl were married..you know how I mean it..in our ages this is just a joke…
But, he knew it that I am gonna see it, and I am gonna be hurting,he knew how I feel by thinking him with womens and he wrote it, i supposed maybe he wrote it because of my message ok, we broke up and he can write whatever he wants, but it is like to see a different person anymore and not my lovely one!!!
I try to focus on me and sometimes I do it with success, but some days i feel this sadness in my heart…Me too I can write whatever I want, but really until now I never did something on social media about him…
I feel better when someone is flirting me and sometimes I am thinking well I will be with someone else, new dreams, new life…but when I am alone I am thinking the life that we would have with my ex, I am missing the things which we didn’t live because of distance…and still they are things in my heart which hurt me…example…”do dreams baby”, and after two days “I can not tell you anymroe lies, , we must break up”…or when I am thinking of his behavior all that months after breaking up….
Anymroe I am not writing him, I mean after my alst message I didn’t sent him something else, he wrote for meeting other girls, so why to write him??
And in the end, ok he made me sad by posting this, and he is like to not respecting me, he knew I am gonna see it…so if he is happy about this well what to say???ok maybe he does not have love for me anymore, but he did this and broke my heart again…can you tell me which is the benefit in his soul by writing something like this, and to knew that I am gonna be sad???
I will try to make my life happy, I don’t know what is gonna be with him, maybe he will return maybe not, I don’t have hopes that he will return, but maybe I will find the love of my life…i will let you know…
Thank you so much for everything!!!!!
Hello to everyone!!! I have a little update…well i asked him did we broke up cause of a very important reason which I knew it from the beggining that is important for you??? He answered me and said me ” No it was not this reason, take this reason out of your mind, please, don’t make yourself sad by thinking this important reason…be happy”
So i told him…what it was then?
No answer…so…I didn’t send something else, i am not gonna send him again, just in birthday , I did everything, i did many things, so it’s time to ove on I suppose…
I read something very beautifull which makes me strong these days ” It is better to have a hope, than to return in a past which made you sad”
I don’t have hope for me and my ex…but right now, really i feel better, It is the no contact which I had to did before months…anymore I just don’t give him attention, Ok, I will be hurted if I see him with other girl, but I feel better…
Many thanks to everyone who helped me all that months!!!! ( @mr_the_ex @patricia12 @KR )
@sky – Sorry it didn’t work out, but now you can move on and find someone else who will give you the attention and love you deserve. Good luck.
@patricia12 Thank you patricia!!! Well I had to listed you for the second no contact I didn’t listened you but now I am fine…I am just hoping for something new, , I mean by having this hope in my heart I can move on, i started to not thinking so much my ex, neither to see his social media…I am just thinking my “hope”…soooo…maybe my post will read it by other people here..soooo lets all of us having a hope, this “hope” mad eme strong , i mean hoping that i will find love, I started to be more close to my job i mean to be happy again with my job, with my hobbies, with my friends, and the most important to be happy for my life!!!! Whatever is gonna happen , me i am justing hoping and “hope’ really can make us strong!!!!
You are very lucky because you love so deeply.
When you find someone who loves you as much as you love them, you will be so happy 🙂
@mr_the_ex thank you so much for your kind words!!! I wish it with all my heart!!! In my heart there is a hope …we will see!!!!
@mr_the_ex @patricia12 well my friends, as I was writing to you about hoping etc….my ex after so many days I mean, last conatct was before 23 days and I changed my photo in my social media and he did “like”….ok I know a “like’ doesn’t mean something, I mean by a “like” he wants me back??Not of course! Maybe he liked how I was in photo (beautifull and happy hahahahaah) but he did “like’ and I started again to think why he did it….of course me I didn’t did something to him, no message, no likes, nothing…and of course i saw in his friend’s profile like to a song ..the song was exactly for us and our breaking up, lyrics …i still love you, it was my fault, don’t go, you are mye verything….
I know he can do whatever he wants and by a song also he doesn’t want me back….
But his “like’ to me…made me to think about eveyrhting, and I try to not be again in the hell which i was all that months….
what’s your opion???
Me I am thinking if he wants something he can write to me or calling me….
@mr_the_ex @patricia12 hell to everyone and here is the continue. He had name day so i wished him “good evening. happy name day. Wish you to have a great day!!!”… I didn’t expected an answer but he answered me, “thank you very much my (and here he wrote my name with “my” example “my sky”), wish you also the best in your life.
I just read the message. His answer was like all the others answers in his social media, me I sent him a private message, and to other people he didn’t used names…
I don’t know what to say, but was strange he did me like, he wrote my name with “my”…After breaking up he just call me with my name only two times and then he was cold…
I know an answer in a wish message does not mean something because if he wants being with me he have to start talking with me …we will see…
(probably it is the second time that I am writing the same message, sorry but I don’t see if I wrote it twice)
@sky – It makes me sad that you are still obsessing about him. You’re looking at everything to try and figure out the meaning. The only thing that would mean something is if he asked to see you or get back together, but he is not doing that!! I suggest you stop stalking social media and stop chasing him. That way, you will heal faster.
@patricia12 By sending him a message with wishes doesn’t mean that I am chasing him. Above all we were together for 7 months and at least i am a human and I wanted to wish him,I am not gonna be another person and forgeting my behavior all that years to wish to someone even if we are together or not, he did it also before a month , so what was meaning that he was chasing me??? I am not talking to him anymore, and it is normal to want to know why he divorced me, and it is normal to have him still in my heart, and to love him. And now that I said to myself that I will move on, HE started to do all that things. So i don’t know why you think that I am chasing him by wishing him…
@sky – Okay. Continue to obsess about him, stalk social media, try to decode his actions, and message him if it makes you feel better. Wishing you good luck..
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