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Update:
So tonight I emailed my ex. Its been 3 months since we last talked. I just sent a short and friendly email to see if we could open up the lines of communication again. Wish me luck!
He will either not respond, respond and reject me, or try talking to me again. I took a risk because I wont give up on him.
Good luck my dear and it is nice that you are not loosing hope,i wish you the very best and be positive,you will be fine.He should respond as he is lucky to have you.
Thank you all so much for the support. He responded to my email! He wrote more than I did and seemed happy to hear from me! He said he was glad it seemed that I was doing well and that we was doing ok and staying busy with work.
I have questions !!! That I could use help from you all! He didn’t ask me any questions is that bad? Also I want to respond to his email… should I make him wait? Or should I email him back tonight? ?? I’m not sure what the best move is !!
Please any advice would help me so much.
anyone? Im not sure if I should wait to email him or email him now….I dont want to seem too anxious but I also dont want to make it seem like I don’t want to talk to him
Thank you for your help! I think I will wait a day or so. Do you think that because he didn’t say he missed me or anything that it’s a bad sign? Do I still have a chance? :/
Control your emotions and reply after few hours and be normal,dont show your desperation and need,it sure will take time and a 50/50 chance.Talk to the point.
Thank you @kalicooldude. I haven’t responded to him yet but I will sometime today. Hopefully he will want to keep talking to me..I also want to skype with him again at some point.. Should I bring it up after a few emails if he doesn’t?
I wouldn’t read into it too much that he hasn’t asked questions or said that he misses you. If he had jumped straight in with that, he might of thought it may put you off a bit. Just like if you did it to him.
I agree with the others, just be cool now, don’t reply straight away as you don’t want to seem desperate and needy, leave it a while and then respond to him. See how the conversation flows before you mention skyping or anything.wait to email him back for at least a day, so you don’t seem desperate. do not mention anything about wanting to get back together. show him that you are happy and positive, which will bring back the attraction he once had for you.
The very first step is important, and is key… He responded! I recommend you wait a couple of days to respond back, and reply back without sounding too serious. That is must to continue breaking the ice. He may not want to seem to over the top at first, and maybe feeling you out too. Go with the flow, and build up a conversation day by day.
So I’ve sent 2 emails and he has responded to both of them…but he still isn’t asking me anything. I’m starting to feel really bad about it. I’m scared he won’t want to be my friend still and I don’t know how I’ll ever get him back now. It just seems so impossible. All because he’s in Europe. I don’t know how to proceed with building a friendship back when it seems like he doesn’t want to carry on a conversation. But he wanted so badly to be my friend before and skype with me. I’m so lost
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