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@JeanValins what is going on with your ex, have you had any more contact with her?
@ChrisLovesChris yes and i think she still didnt see the message … i start woundring where the hell she gone to? Coz she is not even playing like she used to … i dont know what she is doing..
@JeanValins I am on the long road with you…no matter how complicated or impossible things might seem we have to believe in ourselves…it’s the only way to get through this
@ChrisLovesChris sometimes i feel way down i dont know why… i am trying hard to cheer my self up to not worry … reading stuff and watch great videos just to cheer up … if i just can stop thinking for a short period that will be awesome
@JeanValins I know what you mean, I am struggling with that myself. I have a DVD on to distract myself, it is sort of working. I am going to finally clean my bathroom and do some laundry in a bit. But the thoughts keep spinning in my head…
@ChrisLovesChris you know what we should do … we need to have something that keep us mind busy for these moments ,,, we dont wanna forget them we just need to be busy while working to get them back … but ur mind busy with something u made it looks importance even its silly thing it doesnt matter … what do u think?
So much positive opinions on here. I was wondering if you could read my letter and problems. Any help would be appreciated
Thanks
@JeanValins that is what I am trying to do…I am trying to immerse myself with things that remind me of a time when I didn’t know him yet…it has been difficult but a very small part of me is starting to remember my own identity. You know what…I just had an idea…I am going to go back to trying to learn Greek…that should keep my mind busy…
That’s it keep busy and it helps. Sometimes I feel sad and miss her but I tell myself no contact and working on myself is for the greater good. Keep me posted on your recovery
@ChrisLovesChris I just wanna know what key i can use to change my ex mind ,.. i believe i can but just need a key to use … i know how to be busy but now i done NC and i am working to get her back but not with bad way.
I have shown you the way but to change is difficult. You must unlearned what you have known. I am not going to be here forever. I can only show you the door but you must be the one to walk through it. For now to really make a difference is in yourself. No other. You must believe in the impossible. I tell you over and over and over again. Still you are afraid but the training goes out of your mind.
I will leave you all with this.
I’m going to do this. I don’t care what it takes. I am going to throw that boulder in the road and make him take a U turn right back!
@ChrisLovesChris great now u believe in ur self … u can do this and i believe in u … Just like the hot water ,,, when u turn the hot water on and the cold water stuck and u wanna turn the cold water on before the hot water be real real hot … the god news is u can turn the hot water off if u didnt open the cold water on however u still can try 😉
@JeanValins I am tired of hurting and I am tired of being weak…I was looking at my ex like this massive unbeatable enemy but not anymore…I remembered he is just a person. And the only way through this is to not let him have that power over me anymore.
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