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@ChrisLovesChris Crying helps … Hot Shower help … Green Tea helps … Funny jokes helps … Reading helps … Write what inside ur heart in papers help … sitting near the window while looking to the stars at night helps … thinking of the gakaxy help …. Watch Funny stuff helps … Walking around helps … talking to positive people help 🙂
@JeanValins all the things you’ve been saying to me have been helpful…even if it doesn’t look like it and I am a pathetic mess. Just knowing someone out there is sitting there keeping me company in all this pain is a huge help. I feel a little bit better right now. I don’t want to be sick anymore…
@ChrisLovesChris Coz i felt the same and i needed someone to make me feel better … i know ur feelings i lived these moments and i want you to get over tgis pain asap and live ur life like it was 🙂 i am better i forced my self to be and i can force u to be better :3 After u feel better gonna tell you how i felt backthere … for now push ur self to be in the top … you should love ur self
Not sugar coating anything but you will ache. And it may be for sometime but just keep yourself busy. Take a walk, go for a run, learn a new skill or language, take up a new hobby. Do something that calls for your entire focus. You will eventually start to feel less and less sad. Trust me, when I got my heart broken by my ex of nearly 4 years, it was so hard. We had to do no contact because i had to stick a restraining order on him. The NC felt like he was dead. Complete cut and dry. The days seemed so hazzy and nights were just a daze of lonliness. I kept myself going by reconnecting with old friends and getting closer to new friends. I dove myself into school just to keep my mind from wandering. Time eventually began to heal me as did accomplishing little goals I set up for myself.
@JeanValins I will try, but I know I’m going to need loads of help. At lunch today I was looking up support group meetings, someone recommended I go and I agree it would be a good idea.
@LilyMoon If you don’t mind my asking, how did it happen that you had your heart broken but your ex was the one who wound up with a restraining order? I feel like the only one in this equation who would have the capacity to end up with one of those is me…@ChrisLovesChris i always post sad stuff and its really annoying me ,., i wanna change this thing
@JeanValins did you look up Sam’s speech to Frodo on youtube like Merchaunt suggested? I did… it made me cry, but it does also make me feel stronger and braver.
My work day is almost over…thank god. To top it off work has been hell, we don’t have enough people working here and I typically have a LOT of work…but it was never a problem because I was so fast and efficient. Now that I am barely hanging on to my mind, I am so overwhelmed…I have started making mistakes here and there, not typical for me…
@ChrisLovesChris hmmm no i didnt see it .. i might do that later ,,, i just came back from shoping and tomorrow i have long day to do lots of stuff arrrgggghhh i have bought some games today but i wanna buy some clothes as well … non of my friends are interested to go shoping with me lol i feel bored
@JeanValins I just watched it again…it really is a wonderful speech, very uplifting. Maybe I will watch all the Lord of the Rings movies now. That will take up a lot of time. I’ve never really watched them all properly. My mom was just commenting that my face looks very different, very strange… I unfortunately am one of those people who you can see the sadness in my eyes very much. I think everyone everywhere has been seeing it. The good part I guess is that I am too depressed to even care. I’m glad she is cooking tonight.
@ChrisLovesChris I felt ill yesterday … i went to kitchen to cook the dinner suddenly she came to my mind … i remembered when i asked her to cook for me and she said she dont know if i am gonna like it or not ,, i left the kitchen I want to watch football match and some random movies and start feeling much better … i felt the feeling of throwing up but i forced my self to eat … I’ve been telling my self she wont back to me just to have no hope and work for my self ,,, but the truth is whenever a little thing remind me of her i just lose my mind ,…
Thats why i hate being in love …
@JeanValins I hate those sudden memories…they are the absolute worst, like a knife in the heart. I especially hate when I remember something I didn’t remember for a long time, that is 100 times worse. Do you really believe though that having no hope is the best way to look at things? Or that it is even accurate? I have been thinking about how ultimately I cannot force him to come back to me. He has to be able to forgive me. But I can also do everything I can to make that possible, and I believe that if I do, then it is possible… The only thing that was clearly impossible, was what I was doing before, that led me here.
I felt sick after eating dinner again. Everything just makes me feel so full and like something foreign is sitting in my stomachHe found out I had met someone a few weeks after our final break up, he convinced himself that i had been cheating which I wasn’t and had not. In his rage he threatened my life and threatend to leak private pictures he had taken of me while I had been asleep. He also threatened me by saying should I have any daughters in the future that he would love to get his hands on them. Therefore I SLAPPED him with a restraining order ASAP.
@LilyMoon o m g …. he did breakup with u … and said these stuff!?.,.,?
@ChrisLovesChris she mentioned in her status that she don’t want to think about somebody anymore I don’t know maybe it could be me or somebody else because I haven’t talked to her for so long so I guess maybe it’s me and I just but I hope in that so whenever I come back to talk to her she will be open and more acceptable for anything I’m going to say well I don’t know from this time I’m just going to collect some sentences to send it to her and maybe things going to be different I’ll try to find a magic letters I’ll try to think about something original and I will post it here to see what the people here were going to say about it before I do anything wrong cuz that’s the only chance I will get after 1 month no contact … today i feel better i got new hair cut also i edit my beard it looks good now and gonna post it as profile pic on line :3@LilyMoon I can’t believe that, that is seriously messed up. He does the dumping and then he threatens you?
@JeanValins I hope she is talking about you and I really hope everything works out. I really look forward to hearing about what happens in your situation. You can write to me about it here in my thread if you want.
I feel like garbage again this morning. I have been sleeping a bit better but as soon as I open my eyes, there is that fist around my stomach again. I hate the mornings, so so much. I miss him more than you can imagine. I picture him going about his day and I just want to cry, I wish I could find him somehow and hug him so tight. 🙁 I just can’t believe this is happening. I’m so scared he will never talk to me again.@ChrisLovesChris its just me in the NC I made in the first 2 weeks … after a while I feel better because she still fighting me in the same problem when i talk to her and this is what I want just to remind her if there’s a problem we should fix it … it end it up blocked me like she always do … but this time I want to give her lesson do not block me again because it’s been 3 weeks NC..and I’m sure it will be 4 weeks of no contact or even more … we didnt have normal stuff … even the sex we had is just different .. i made her laugh her ass off sometimes and i dont think she missed that … the thing is how i could use these memories to remind her of the good time we had together … even we keep playing online games together … we enjoyed really much lots of stuff together and i hope it will come back one day…
and sure i will share it with u here if the conversation still going on … but I might posted as a new topic.. Coz just need a bit help of which text should i send …
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