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I started writing a draft about what i wanted to say her when i finally feel like its the right time to talk to her. I am thinking about sending the letter to her by November 11, i started writing early because I’m really bad at writing and i also want to write everything i every wanted her to know, I have a small doubt though when i send her the letter will it be good idea to send her the picture of us when we were together. I have the picture made for our anniversary but we broke up a day ahead of that and never had a chance to give it to her. Will that come too strong or will that be okay. Thank you for your advice.
Hi Pedro, I don’t think it will do any harm to send it because you’re on good terms with each other. Write the letter the way you want it and enclose the picture to send on November 11th. Good luck..
Thank you patricia12, I’m still working on my draft. I have a small doubt. Do I tell her that I miss her and still love her but leave the decision up to her and respect her will.
Does that sound needy or bad by saying I love you put more pressure or will it push her further away. Thank you again, you’ve help me a lot.
Honestly you shouldn’t say anything like that in the letter. I’m currently in Day 20 of my no contact period and I was contemplating the same thing. But what I gathered from this blog is that it needs to be her decision to get back with you. So for you I just say you agree with the breakup and let her open up to you first. You guys need to build your way back into a relationship, not just jump in full speed ahead. I wish you the best of luck!
@Pedro ~ Don’t say you agree with the breakup! That makes it sound like you’re glad and that you didn’t care about very much about the relationship. Don’t say anything in the letter about the decision to get back together is up to her. Like PrinceJ said; that decision is hers to make and you don’t need to tell her that. Since it will be your first letter to her, you can say you miss her because that’s the truth and she knows it. At the end of the letter you can put; Love, Pedro. If you send anything else later on, be upbeat and cheery, and don’t mention the relationship at all. Just fun happy things. Don’t ignore her at school. If you pass by or see her in class say “Hi” to be polite.
How is the job search going?@patricia12 thank you again for the response, so is it okay if i tell her that i still love her or should i just say i miss her and is it okay to talk about the good memories we spend when we were together, we had a great time every time we left out of town. I want her to know that i still love her and miss her. I really love her a lot but i also don’t want to put any pressure. Today in class she didn’t even made a eye contact, she ignored every time i tried, i was trying to be friendly with her. we cross our path and she waved at her friend but just ignored me that hurts so much.she looks so happy,patricia12 as you know about those two guys she looks so happy with them. i know they are just a friends and even if she started having relationship with one of them i want her to be happy but it kills me not being able to talk to her. how should i keep my calmness. i see her every day and everyday she is with them.i don’t know what and how to do it. Thank you for checking me with my job search. I started taking IT training class which will help me in job search, right now i am just focusing on my school I’ve 5 class and one more training class on weekends. @PrinceJ thank you for your help.
will you guys read what i wrote, I’m half way done and will love to have someone read it and make sure I’m doing the right thing. I don’t want to come off in a wrong way, i want her to know that i miss her and love her but also at the same time i don’t want to sound too desperate.
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